Theworriedwell. Not in my case. Former husband had everything planned, and probably had for some years whilst we were both working. Put the house up for sale at late retirement in our 70s and, at exchange of contracts, he said we couldn't live together. Actually, he said a lot more. I have had a few years to reflect. Although I worked full time, he came first and I thought I was loyal and supportive so that he could concentrate on his career. He literally controlled everything throughout the marriage - except for the cooking, housework and child care. It actually helps putting this down in writing. Thank you to anyone reading or commenting. Good luck and best wishes to those going out on their own in later life.
