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Shimmer Thu 14-May-26 22:14:09

Has anyone been told hurtful comments regarding your looks
I can remember 2 instances, a long long time ago but I still sometimes go over these comments
They were from total strangers
One of the comments from a group of boy's whilst walking home from work.
I cried once I got home
I have had lots of compliments also so way do I focus on these

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crazyH Thu 14-May-26 22:33:09

Yes I have. My husband (now Ex) mocked my gait, my choice of clothes etc etc
I concentrated on the compliments I used to get and the fact that I ONCE won a beauty competition.😂 -
I’m sorry Shimmer - I am exactly like you - I go over hurtful things that were said to me years and years ago, not just by my Ex , but other family members too, not necessarily about my looks, but about various other things.
I over think and make myself ill.
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