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vampirequeen Mon 25-Feb-13 14:39:21

There seem to be assumptions being made about people's beliefs. So I decided to put the record straight on what I believe.

I'm technically a Roman Catholic but I don't believe the Church truly follows the simple messages given by Christ which was love God and love other people.

So what am I?

Well I believe that Christ was a good man who had suggested a way to live a good life but I have no idea whether or not the was the Son of God. It would be nice to think that there is a God who watches over us and cares about us but that's not in my life experience so if God does exist he's not the nice guy that I was taught he was.

God or the gods are much more fickle than that simplistic 'all loving' view. I'm more inclined to the ancient beliefs that God/the gods too have faults and sometimes play games with human lives for their own amusement or maybe that is the coincidences caused all the interactions that take place everyday between humans and the natural world.

I do believe there is more to existance than we can see. I believe in natural spirits (fairies and sprites if you want to give them a name). I believe that spirits can inhabit special places. I believe that after physical death the human spirit continues to exist in some form but I have no idea what that form is so maybe it's just wishful thinking.

I believe in ghosts either as a sort of spiritual recording (that a place can somehow absorb strong emotions and replay the images when somehow triggered) or as a trapped spirit that needs help to move on to wherever a spirit goes.

These are my basic beliefs. Feel free to discuss and debate them. I will not take offence if you don't agree with me or think I'm delusional. I will try to justify them but sometimes a belief can't be proved as no facts exist to provide concrete evidence.

janthea Tue 26-Feb-13 19:18:42

glassortwo grin

glassortwo Tue 26-Feb-13 14:27:20

I was brought up C of E but think I am agnostic, but reading the post from goose maybe I am humanist....

My beliefs are to try to help anyone who needs it...
to try not to judge others, be happy in my own skin...
to try to leave as little an imprint on the environment as I can in the time I am here.

I feel that everyone to their own and should have the chance to believe in whatever God or anything else they hold precious.

I feel that since the beginning Religion has been a way of controlling us.

bags I think that it exactly right "What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal" – Albert Pike.

celebgran Tue 26-Feb-13 14:22:41

Very interesting!

I gain peace from catholic mass not strict one however and not really sure what I believe other than I know there are spirits who live on after death due to visiting spiritualist. She told me facts about my late mother no one could have known.

I also firmly believe there must be. Greater life force than hans use to our ability to destroy so Much And mess up in general!
Lot of gaps but I firmly believe you feel more at peace the kinder you are to people !

MiceElf Tue 26-Feb-13 13:29:28

I have set out my position on another thread but the essence of what I as a Christian believe is summed up in this quote from the NT:

No one has seen God at any time, if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

The theme of 'one another' runs through the NT and is a constant reminder that we are members one of another and it's by striving to love each other that we begin to understand the love of God.

I am completely agnostic about an 'afterlife'. It doesn't matter. It's how we live in this life that is important. And as God is beyond time and space, 'after' becomes meaningless.

It's in the strength of parish life where ordinary people - sinners all - try to support each other and live, as best they can, by the principles of the Gospels that enables me to try to live as I believe I should. I think it's very hard to do it on your own.

I always remember a message given by a very learned Jesuit. He described God as the ultimate Love, Truth and Beauty. Peoples of goodwill, whatever their religious or cultural traditions strive to reach that knowledge of love and truth. The path and the journey will be different for all of us, but at the end of striving comes the peace which passes all understanding.

mrshat Tue 26-Feb-13 10:48:58

A lovely thread, thank you to vq. I would like to endorse Galen's post of Mon 25th 21:43:20. Brought up a RC and still practising, altho' not as regularly as I would like; it is my 'unbelief' I struggle with. Great posts from everyone, read with interest and faith! grin

JessM Tue 26-Feb-13 06:47:21

My parents were agnostic. My mother sent us to chapel to get a grounding in the Bible which, she rightly pointed out, would help us understand subjects like history and english lit.
I have been an atheist since my teens. I believe we are biological entities - the product of evolution and individual upbringing. I do think that the human species is an amazing phenomenon - capable of such extremes of kindness and cruelty. I feel guilt about the damage we do to other species which have an equal right to be here. We know so much now about the huge complexity and size of the universe. I could not possibly fit belief in a personal god alongside that knowledge. I think gods are the inventions of the human mind.

Bags Tue 26-Feb-13 06:22:40

This is one of my beliefs: "What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal" – Albert Pike.

A slight variation on some themes above, but essentially the same.

Bags Tue 26-Feb-13 05:54:12

I think we're all agnostics really, since there are things we cannot know/understand. Atheist doesn't mean that you know there are no supernatural beings, only that you don't have faith that there are. It expresses a lack of faith (something negative), not a certainty (something positive).

Joan Tue 26-Feb-13 03:11:36

I have often thought that the things we cannot explain may one day be explained by science. Perhaps quantum physics is getting closer. Perhaps today's supernatural is tomorrow's science.

I have read about children under 5 being more in touch with the supernatural (for want of a better word). I remember my son, at about 18 months, coming out with a string of words that sounded like Latin. He was not yet speaking English!

There is a lot we don't understand, but perhaps one day even ghosts will have an explanation. My favourite ghost story was about a man who worked in a pub. He was down in the cellar when he saw the ghosts of a troup of ancient Roman soldiers marching through the cellar, but their feet were about 2' below the floor. Years later an archaeological dig found a Roman road........ 2' below the level of that floor.

I don't have any religious beliefs any more, finding atheism more comforting, but I do try to keep an open mind about things we don't understand. The only things about religion that get me mad, are when it is used as an excuse to hurt people or discriminate against them, or screw more money out of them than they can afford, or to deny science.

I rather like the sound of that church in London that has been used as a gathering for non-believers; I think they call it Sunday Assembly. They have talks about philosophy, and have some music.

nightowl Tue 26-Feb-13 00:40:11

Having looked back at my post I think I meant to say I would describe myself as an agnostic, rather than an atheist. I am definitely in the 'don't know' camp rather than the 'don't believe' camp nowadays. Maybe it's wishful thinking as I get closer to the finishing line smile

Grannybug Mon 25-Feb-13 23:40:28

Have loved reading the many and varied posts and the very different tone of this thread. I believe there is a God and that I have free will to choose my path in this wonderful world. To do unto others as you would be done unto ,to turn the other cheek, ( so difficult and often fail) , to love one another, not judging others( challenging)are the principles I try to live by. Other faiths have much to offer as well and can prove so comforting in difficult times .
Thanks to to VQ for starting this discussion and I look forward to learning more as people post their views and opinions.

Galen Mon 25-Feb-13 22:42:52

smile

j08 Mon 25-Feb-13 22:32:42

Nobody's mocking you there Galen.

Ana Mon 25-Feb-13 22:06:01

I agree, gillybob - a lot very interesting and thought-provoking posts.

Ariadne Mon 25-Feb-13 21:55:20

So have I, gillybob!

gillybob Mon 25-Feb-13 21:51:28

I totally agree with your first line Baubles This is most definitely "it". It is up to us to make the very best of the one life we have.

I must say I have thoroughly enjoyed this thread and have read every post with interest. smile

Galen Mon 25-Feb-13 21:43:20

All I can say , and mock me if you wish ' Lord, I believe, help thou my un belief!'

vampirequeen Mon 25-Feb-13 21:11:01

I think we're all born with the ability to connect to some other spirit world/dimension hence children say things that they can't possibly know or see and talk to people that don't appear to be there. Somehow as we get older we lose/logic away this ability except sometimes the other world seeps in and we see/feel/hear/smell something. How many people have thought they could smell tobacco or flowers that made them think of someone they knew? Have you ever had the sensation of something touching you when there is nothing there? Has anyone ever seen someone out the corner of their eye and turned to find there was no one there?

When my friend's son was around three they saw a vintage car. He said that he had liked riding in it. My friend told him he hadn't been in it but he'd seen it. He replied that he knew he hadn't been in it with her but had been when he was with his other mummy who had hair the same colour as him (he was blond and my friend is dark) and wore a dress with flowers on. She told me a shiver went down her spine and she changed the subject because it disturbed her so much. Maybe that's what happens to us as children. We come to realise that if we talk about what we can see it upsets the adults so we stop acknowledging it and eventually stop seeing it.

Mishap Mon 25-Feb-13 20:48:56

I was brought up in a household where my father was atheist - although I learned from his mother that prior to his experiences in the war, he was a devout Christian.

My mother was a "don't know" really but she dragged us around from one church to another in her sadly fruitless search for meaning.

I echo the thoughts of many above - that there is no way of knowing what the meaning of all this is. But that we can lead good lives in spite of that absence of knowledge.

As to the after death question - I believe that we all live on in the good we do and the mistakes we make. And we began as star dust and that is where we return. Atoms are not destroyed, just redistributed somewhere in the universe.

The important thing is that whatever our beliefs we live at peace with them. For my part I embrace the not knowing as part of the human condition and am at peace with that.

Faye Mon 25-Feb-13 20:32:27

This is such an interesting subject vq. Jesus Christ to me is just a story and other cultures have stories of parallel God like men who also roamed the earth long ago and were connected to their Gods. It is hard to describe how I think there would be a God, it wouldn't be a God looking out for the seven billion people on Earth. I really don't know.

I have seen ghosts and had other experiences, some I really don't understand. I believe in reincarnation. I also believe that we are with those we love in this life after we die.

GS then 4, last year kept talking about seeing both his great grandfathers, both who he has never met and we sadly never mentioned in front of him. It seems like they were forgotten. My eldest granddaughter spoke about reincarnation that even amazed me when she could barely talk. Late last year when I was walking into a museum with one of my other GSs also 4, when he stopped, stood looking at the ceiling and said "I saw that last night in my dream." I always find it fascinating to hear the things my grandchildren and other children say.

There is more going on than we will ever know, as far as I am concerned.

baubles Mon 25-Feb-13 20:21:22

I believe that this life is the only one we have, that it is as meaningful as we make it.

I had a rather confused upbringing with regards to religion. I had catholic mother who suffered agonies of guilt because she had given up practising her religion for reasons which were never made clear to me. My formerly catholic father was fiercely anti-religion from the age of fourteen but did not press his views on us children instead we were encouraged to go to any church or Sunday school we took a fancy to. The result of that was me being able to recite huge passages from the scriptures, without believing any of it and hoping each week that I would be visited by the holy spirit and therefore be 'saved'. From what, I wasn't entirely sure.

I went home to Ireland every summer and wanted nothing more than to be the same as my cousins and so I went to mass regularly. Through the years I tried very hard to believe in a god; any god would have done, but belief just would not come to me. Eventually I came to realise that it was ok not to have any faith, that it was possible to lead a life out with any religion, and be comfortable with that.

I finally understood that morality did not depend on religion and that I could aspire to be a good person under my own steam. I'm content in my atheism.

nanaej Mon 25-Feb-13 18:29:01

galen bother for yourself, your fellow and future humans? Do you only 'bother' because you believe there is an afterlife? I bet that is not true.

Butty Mon 25-Feb-13 18:00:38

Galen I really don't think there is anything, but why not bother?

Butty Mon 25-Feb-13 17:59:17

ej and goose - I thoroughly agree with both your posts.

Galen Mon 25-Feb-13 17:53:33

I think there must be something, and I hope that there is! Otherwise why bother with anything?