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sunseeker Fri 22-Mar-13 10:14:07

I am to be received into the Church during the Easter Vigil and have to choose a Saint's name for my confirmation. I have been looking through some websites but none have yet to find one that "speaks" to me. Do any of you have a favourite Saint?

sunseeker Sat 23-Mar-13 15:44:27

Many thanks to all of you who have taken the trouble to make suggestions - I have been reading about the lives of the Saints and had begun to despair that I would find one I could relate to (perhaps I should have asked St. Jude for his help!)

I think I have finally decided on St. Teresa of Avila. She seems to have been a very down to earth, practical person. As a child of 5 years old she persuaded her older brother to run away "to the land of the Moors", fortunately they were found by their uncle and returned home. As a teenager she was more interested in boys and clothes than religious life and her strict father confined her to a convent when she reached 16. Initially not liking the convent life decided they were less strict than her father! She writes about the difficulty in concentrating on prayer. "I was more anxious for the hour of prayer to be over than I was to remain there"

When the time came to decide between matrimony or the religious life she decided to remain in the convent as she felt it was the safest place for someone as prone to sin as she was.

She also appears to have had a sense of humour, one day complaining to God about the hostility that surrounded her Jesus said "That is how I treat my friends" she replied "No wonder you have so few friends"

She decided to start her own convent dedicated to a simple life of poverty and prayer. She believed in obedience to God rather than penance "if you do something wrong don't punish yourself - change"

When invited by an Archbishop to found a convent she arrived in the pouring rain, only for him to send her away she commented "and the weather so delightful"

grannyactivist Sat 23-Mar-13 15:12:01

Hi Sunseeker I wonder if you've come across this site?
www.catholic-forum.com/saints/patron00.htm#s
Plenty to choose from I should think, but it might take some time. grin

Galen Sat 23-Mar-13 14:55:36

Isn't she a patroness of virgins?

matson Sat 23-Mar-13 14:20:50

i choose st. philomena when i was confirmed, but that was 50 years ago and i,ve forgotten why i chose her ! x

vampirequeen Sat 23-Mar-13 14:14:53

My daughter took Thea. The Bishop asked if she was a real saint. My daughter said "Roman, virgin, brothel....need I say more." The Bishop stammered something about that sounding like a saint and that was it lol.

vampirequeen Sat 23-Mar-13 14:12:27

I wanted to take Dymphna. She's the patron saint of those with mental conditions and it amused me (little did I know how apt it would become) but the Bishop wouldn't let me. So I chose Irene of Thessalonica because her day is my birthday.

Galen Sat 23-Mar-13 12:04:37

I have 'Feather on the breath of God' lovely

Maniac Sat 23-Mar-13 11:03:45

sunseeker.How about Hildegard - The abbess Hildegard of Bingen was a remarkable woman in many fields and wrote the most wonderful music .I have some CDs of her music -so calming and uplifting.

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 23:10:41

iPad! Ferrymans glide!

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 23:10:02

Treguier! Horrible entrance. You have to do ferry and glide to access the berths.
How did I ever forget its name! Nice town though!

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 22:59:15

Or according to another list Yves,presumably the femiminine is Yvette. I think I've seen his tomb on the n Brittany coast. Certainly a statue of him it was just before you turn the corner to go s to Brest!

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 22:52:41

Yes St Raymond and our own St Thomas More!

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 22:49:40

He's my patron along with Luke and at the end of a tribunal ST Blaze!

gracesmum Fri 22-Mar-13 22:36:35

I believe St Jude is the patron saint of lost causes hmm

MiceElf Fri 22-Mar-13 14:50:42

The patron saints of lawyers are St Thomas More and Saint Catherine of Alexandria.

sunseeker Fri 22-Mar-13 14:47:41

Thanks for all the suggestions - Galen is there a patron saint of legal executives smile

A friend has lent me a book listing the Saints by their days and I will now start working my way through it.

The priest did say he could make some suggestions but preferred me to find a Saint that would mean something to me.

granniefinn Fri 22-Mar-13 14:41:31

Why not pick a name you like then find out if there is a saint with that name that but I do like Francess like the pope

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 13:48:41

Or you could adopt the patron saint of your profession?

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 13:47:37

Abbess Hilda. Organised the synod of Whitby which determined that the English church would follow the roman way of dating Easter rather than the Celtic.

MiceElf Fri 22-Mar-13 13:34:23

Sorry about that. The site is playing silly b******.

The other saint you might like to think about is Margaret Clitherow. She was a mother and admired for her business sense, and during penal times, sheltered priests. When arrested and charged she refused to plead saying that as she had committed no offence, she had no need to plead, thus saving her family from giving evidence.

www.ewtn.com/library/MARY/MARCLITH.HTM

Jadey Fri 22-Mar-13 13:32:40

St Bernedette Of Lourdes

MiceElf Fri 22-Mar-13 12:56:04

I've always really admired Saint Hilda of Whitby. She was an English saint who ruled wisely and well over a double monastery of monks and nuns. She was, according to Bede, a skilled administrator and teacher, and ensured that the monastery was focussed on peace, study and charity. She was consulted by the rulers of the time but had great concern for ordinary people and encouraged and fostered the gifts of Caedmon the humble herder who became a poet.

MiceElf Fri 22-Mar-13 12:53:52

I've always really admired Saint Hilda of Whitby. She was an English saint who ruled wisely and well over a double monastery of monks and nuns. She was, according to Bede, a skilled administrator and teacher, and ensured that the monastery was focussed on peace, study and charity. She was consulted by the rulers of the time but had great concern for ordinary people and encouraged and fostered the gifts of Caedmon the humble herder who became a poet.

Gorki Fri 22-Mar-13 12:33:35

St.Julie (Julia )b.1751. She was a teacher and her special day is 8th April

Galen Fri 22-Mar-13 12:03:58

St Clare of Assisi or you could follow the pope and use the feminine form of Frances.