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As an agnostic

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Cindersdad Tue 25-Dec-18 07:20:26

Like many I'm not sure if there is a God or not and find it impossible to have a faith as such. However I do take not of the words from the Pope and other faith leaders. The Pope's recent words on scaling back materialism make a lot of sense, thw world's resources should be used more wisely and shared more fairly.

Cultures need to be respected which is why I cannot comprehend extremism in any faith. Currently Islam extremism is doing unbelievable harm though in the past other religions have shown contempt for humanity by asserting their own exclusive monopolies to the truth.

This morning it was heartening to see the New Bishop of London in St. Paul's Cathedral and even more heartening to learn that her compassion and faith stemmed from a previous career in nursing. This got me thinking that preachers are generally better if they have worked outside the church before becoming part of it.

If there is a God then God will judge us as individuals not by our belief in God but by the way we treat our fellow man, living creatures and the planet. Politicians would do well to remember that

Anniebach Wed 26-Dec-18 08:59:20

My parish church is struggling to raise £300 for repairs,

mumofmadboys Wed 26-Dec-18 08:54:49

Most churches do not have wealth invested in companies etc. You mean individual churches do you GG? Most churches find it hard to pay their bills maintain their buildings and pay their Share. The Share is a figure decided by the C of E which each parish has to pay the diocese to help pay the clergy which is based on numbers attending church and the wealth of the area. An anonymous questionnaire is done each year asking each member how much they earn so that a fair share for each church can be arrived at.
Churches may own silverware used for communion but this has been owned usually for hundreds of years and is in regular use.

Anniebach Wed 26-Dec-18 08:48:15

Gabriella your post is confusing but I accept you have little knowledge of faiths

Speldnan Wed 26-Dec-18 07:57:12

Here here GabriellaG54 on every point

GabriellaG54 Wed 26-Dec-18 01:46:17

As an athiest, I think it ridiculous that all the religions in the world, think that their God is the only true God and the others, imposters.
This earth and the creatures and humans on it have been in existance for millennia, yet a Jewish lad was supposedly sent here 2,018 years ago to tell us about following an unseen deity, the 'book' being written in different places by different people at different times and put together as if it were a collaboration. A burning bush, walking on water and raising a man from the dead were, to the ignorant, miracles. Nowadays it would be trickery. There is no afterlife and those who believe that sinners themselves, (such as priests, vicars etc) have the right to forgive others their sins, are deluded.
It's all a myth, wherever in the world you go. Hokum.
As for churches opening tgeir doors to the homeless. I know that for the majority, it isn't true. I personally paid the YMCA for a homeless person to stay on two separate occasions of a week each as no church of any denomination, would consider it, in fact, they more or less stonewalled me and said there were no facilities for letting people stay, due to their insurance caveats. I had to laugh at that piece of information.
Believe me, most of them hide behind 'church rules' and the fact that precious items might 'go missing'.
If that's religion, you can put it where the sun.....
Many churches have wealth invested in companies which may not sit well with the morals of those parishioners and donors who support them.
The gold, silver, richly embroidered clothing and pomp afforded to those in many religious offices, is out of order. How anyone can equate all that, with the purported teachings of humility, sacrifice and renouncing all worldly goods and comforts, beats me. Hypocrisy at it's highest level.

Iam64 Tue 25-Dec-18 22:43:17

(Sorry, pressed the wrong button) never met a poor Priest or vicar. I suspect they haven’t known many priests or vicars. They are not well paid, work very hard and live in tied houses. Our old vicarage probably costs a lot to heat!

Lynne59 Tue 25-Dec-18 22:42:11

. The Vatican Bank has $8 billion in assets. The Vatican Bank, which has about $8 billion in assets, has often been at the center of scandal and corruption since it was founded in 1942. Pope Benedict began the process of cleaning the bank up, and Francis has continued that work.24 Sep 2015...

(copied by Googling it).

Iam64 Tue 25-Dec-18 22:41:16

The Church Of England is selling off properties and Churches in order to keep some Churches open. Our local multi faith group works effectively with parishioners, the homeless, the disaffected and with refugees and asylum seekers. The mosques run food kitchens for the homeless in our town.
I understand some criticisms of organised religion but never ceased to be amazed at the ignorance of basic information eg, someone says they never met a poor pries

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Anniebach Tue 25-Dec-18 22:24:54

Luckygirl, now I understand, and I agree , the churches and cathedrals I know of do both. But we should also remember Church attendance is dropping, the money isn’t going in for repairs.

I accept many will disagree with me but this country needs to turn back to God,

Lumarei Tue 25-Dec-18 22:22:26

Anniebach, excellent posts.

I find that some agnostics seem to have the need to condemn those who worship in churches. I can only presume it is to justify their unbelief. Why?
Sad to read the post on Christmas Day.

Like with all things in life we can ignore the enormous good and point out the shortcomings which will always be there in any organisation or individual.

The only important thing in life is the searching for a personal relationship or further development with God (love) and our neighbours.

Anniebach Tue 25-Dec-18 22:17:07

icanhandthemback don’t despair, God doesn’t make people homeless and choose others to have homes . Man causes homelessness, God doesn’t choose who will be alcoholics , drug addicts, mentally ill, lazy, cheats , liars or evict them from houses, man does .

May I give two quotes , not preaching honestly ,

1. Love of money is the root of evil.

2. You cannot serve God and mammon .

And to quote Gandhi

There is enough on earth for everyone’s need , but not enough for everyone greeds .

If we are all honest what don we spend at Christmas , I have read
Twenty billion , how many homes could we build x

Luckygirl Tue 25-Dec-18 21:37:12

I have no problem with maintaining the beautiful historic buildings and recognise what a huge challenge this is. But alongside this, most cathedrals have some sort of charitable outreach - quite rightly - but this cathedral seems not to have this - and I think that is a shame, and rather unusual.

As for the vatican etc. - I do think that the RC hierarchy could make choices to get rid of some of their wealth and direct it to good causes.

Saetana Tue 25-Dec-18 20:43:55

There is actually zero evidence that Jesus ever existed - and, as we all know, the Romans were great record keepers. I have no time for any religion, however I do have time for religous institutions as, here in Bristol, they are the ones who provide the vast majority of services for the homeless and disadvantaged. Does anyone seriously think that historical treasures (that are carefully looked after by the Church) should be sold off to help what would be a very small number of people? The Vatican took in refugees during the recent Syrian crisis, I generally have no time for catholics but the current pope, at least, seems to practise what he preaches.

Anniebach Tue 25-Dec-18 20:01:56

There is not a thing The Pope can do about the wealth of the Vatican , he doesn’t live in the apartments kept for the Popes.

We need our Cathedrals, should Westninster Abby and St.Pauls be left to fall into ruins ? Wells Cathedral, St,David’s Cathedral and the others . I do understand now we are a secular country but there are still people who want and need our churches, we have needs too.

Luckygirl Tue 25-Dec-18 19:21:15

I am usually pretty religiously tolerant, but to have the Pope telling people to "live more simply" was a bit of a corker, surrounded as he is by priceless art, jewellery, buildings, robes, icons etc. etc.

But of course many churches do lots of good amongst the disadvantaged. However the cathedral near us spends a lot of time raising money for the cathedral itself (understandable - they have a precious old building to preserve), but unfortunately they do very little for the local community's homeless and other disadvantaged folk. I think there should be room for both.

icanhandthemback Tue 25-Dec-18 19:05:05

I am finding it hard this year with the church. I listened to the Pope talking about material things and could only think of the untold treasures and wealth which dominate the Vatican. There are priceless treasures from all over the world and, whilst I guess you could argue they are being taken care of, it just seems wrong. Then I listened to another religious person (think it was the Arch Bish of Canterbury) talking about the many people helping the homeless which was apparently "the love of God". It seemed to me that it was more about the love of humans as many of the helpers don't even believe in God. I also wondered why God would let so many people have no homes if he loved us so much.
Never have I felt so jaded about it all even though up to now I have quietly believed implicitly.

Skye17 Tue 25-Dec-18 19:01:15

Sulis, have you looked into the evidence for the resurrection? E g
www.desiringgod.org/articles/historical-evidence-for-the-resurrection
or
The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus (Case for ... Series) www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01863JLK2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_74NiCbJVWJ5Q0?tag=gransnetforum-21

Theoddbird Tue 25-Dec-18 14:05:37

Many faiths have a 'figure head'. They are all different so maybe they are an interpretation of the same thing. Something could be out there...but what? I am a very spiritual person but not religious. I do believe in reincarnation. I have to say that the words of the pope and the bishop of London have impressed me...so different to those that have been before....

Barmeyoldbat Tue 25-Dec-18 13:33:47

Yes it a good comment Annie

Anniebach Tue 25-Dec-18 13:16:14

Sulis for me , A virgin birth or not, he was born and he was crucified, what matters is he lived and we have his teachings and his promises , we are free to accept or deny x

mumofmadboys Tue 25-Dec-18 12:44:22

My husband was a C of E priest. He earnt about 24 K and we had a tied house. He is now retired and his pension is 8 K. He worked in the church for 31 years full time 6 days a week and loved it. We were very fortunate as I was a GP and was well paid s o we could easily support our 5 children. No ,vicars are not overpaid.

Sulis Tue 25-Dec-18 12:38:43

Ooooops! Amen!

Sulis Tue 25-Dec-18 12:38:00

I think there was a Jesus and he had some really worthwhile messages for us. However, I have a real problem with virgin births and physical resurrections. It was three little children singing Carols and offering chocolates at my door who enticed me to church over Christmas which saved me from tears of lonelines and suicidal thoughts. Aren't.

Anniebach Tue 25-Dec-18 12:18:38

I have never been inside the Vatican so will leave it to those who have to comment

EllanVannin Tue 25-Dec-18 12:06:15

Aren't churches connected to breweries or vice-versa, the demon drink and all that where the roots of most of the problems lie but are never spoken about during lessons and services ?

I'd rather follow people like Gandhi " Live as if you were to die tomorrow "-----a great man in his time who was the recipient of many Nobel prizes. A true Hindu.

He opened his arms to all religion and his main goal was to promote peace in the world not just to his own sect. He didn't need a church nor all the trappings that go with them.

An example is the Vatican, full of riches and enough to feed the poor and starving yet the messages we hear are to stamp out starvation and suffering quoted by the Pope himself while there's enough gold inside that building to choke a goat----what's that about ?