Alternative or misinterpretation of religion?

What like non religious people varian? * Gabriella* has voiced her opinions on Jesus and religious folk on many GN threads in a mannner likely to (or designed to) offend those of faith.

That applies to anyone. Politicians, Doctors, even next door neighbours.

Religion is fine as long as religous folk don't attempt to impose their views on others.

With you Doodle and I have given little to the Church but received so much

Cults are very good psychologists they know how to recognise those who are vulnerable enough to be attracted to their organisation. They play with the minds of their aspirants, once in, they tangle you in their web, so that it is very difficult to get free. They also break the links between you and your family and friends. In fact once attracted in, cults act like a psychologically abusing partner

If you do leave you are left like an unshorn lamb on a Yorkshire moor in winter, absolutely alone, none of your fellow adherents will acknowledge you or speak to you. You will have no money, no home, no non-cult friends left, possibly even your family may have moved.

Once in, leaving is very scary. Cult leaders are usually psychopathic and cults are all about the leader, not the belief system.belief system.

I am the only religious person in my family. No one ever forced me to attend church or tried to get me to believe in anything. My family are all good people. Kind, caring, considerate and loving. No great desire for religion ever made me attend church. Not running away from bad people or searching for love from an unknown source. I am surrounded by the love of my family. But I am a Christian. I became one of my own choice because of feelings inside me that are shared by many and not felt by many more. No cult as far as I’m concerned. I know there are many people who use religion (or what they term as religion) in order to force others down a path or to take their money from them but then there are good and bad in all walks of life just as in all religions too.

Religion is like a drug. You're either hooked on it or you can live quite happily without it.
I learned from a very early age that places of worship scared the shit out of me having traipsed through various churches, synagogues, cathedrals and mosques, with my father.
I just had a hatred of all things religious and although I attended Sunday school as a child that wasn't so bad because it was the church hall without the trappings of gargoyles and things attached to the building.

On my various travels abroad I forced myself to go inside orthodox churches monasteries and suchlike to view the architecture more than anything and have visited some wonderful places but in all honesty I couldn't say I felt comfortable--------I don't know why ? I just have this unexplicable aversion.

Yet, close to where I live there's a cemetery with a small Russian orthodox church in the grounds and the peace/ atmosphere inside that place is something else yet there are" illustrations " inside the place.

RosieLeah, (first reply)You could not have said it better!

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head MissA

People are looking for ‘something more’, for some meaning. There’s also an element of fear and looking to a higher being for protections (especially in primitive religions) and guidance and perhaps a security blanket.

I am a Christian, it is not harming me, I live in the real world, and I am not wrong in believing in Christ

I think some people are 'ripe' for the picking, be it religion, online dating or other scams.
People are lonely, marginalised; looking for something more to life.

Jesus has been turned into a cult figure, someone to be worshipped and adored. I'm sure this is not what he intended, his purpose was to remind people of Gods laws, and instruct them on the right way to live.
Rosie That's pretty obvious when you read up on the history of that region. Under Roman occupation, there was a lot of turmoil, with rebel groups springing up. There were also a lot of wandering preachers going around and gathering followers (pretty much like today's televangelists!). Jesus was one of these, but his teachings (as recorded) followed Jewish law and tradition; as far as can be determined, he had no intention of starting a different religion - it was Paul who did that. Paul never knew Jesus but took over his flock, eventually deciding to rebrand this particular sect to make it more appealing to gentiles - no circumcision was required to join, for example.
I wouldn't call people 'sheep' though, for following something that seems crazy to us. They're looking for certainty, security and community, a 'family' that will lavish love on them. All too often, they fail to find any of that comfort on the "real world" that the rest of us inhabit.
You might well ask "Why do these people stay in a cult that is harming them?" That's largely down to the type of thinking known as the Sunk Cost Fallacy - you've already sunk a huge amount of time, money and emotional energy into something, so that you cling on in the hope of getting something back; in the case of cults, that's the hope of getting rewarded in the afterlife. Also you can't bear admitting to yourself that you've been wrong all this time.

Interesting. I think that the challenge is to know where to draw the line between a wacky cult and mainstream religions. It is a slightly hazy area.

Now that we have the internet and television, we are more aware of the true nature of many humans, and it's obvious that the majority of people are not free-thinkers. They look to others for guidance, they need someone to follow and emulate. The Christian religion reflects this. Jesus has been turned into a cult figure, someone to be worshipped and adored. I'm sure this is not what he intended, his purpose was to remind people of Gods laws, and instruct them on the right way to live.
This 'sheep' mentality is obvious in so many ways. Think of some of the ridiculous fashions there have been, yet people will wear something simply because someone else has decided that it should be the trend. Speech and expressions is another thing which is copied simply because 'its what everyone is doing'.
Politicians rely on this mentality, any free-thinkers are quickly slapped down and branded bigots, racists or whatever, because they dare to express an opinion which doesn't comply with Government policy.