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Easter at school

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Blondiescot Sat 26-Mar-22 10:47:45

Religion should play no part in a state-funded education. If parents want their children to have a religious education, they should be prepared to pay for it.

Caleo Sat 26-Mar-22 10:27:19

A child's age appropriate version of Xianity was pretty well invented by Jesus in the teaching form of parables.

There is no need for young children to learn about the significance of JC's suffering and death. Most adults are puzzled by the Resurrection except when they are dead superstitious.

paddyann54 Sat 26-Mar-22 10:02:50

I went to a Catholic school so this was the norm when I was 5 or 6 My children went to what my FIL called a non denominational school ...the local school they saw these images too and had visits from the local minister once a week.
My son used to carry the wee angel off our Christmas tree in his pocket ,when his teacher in primary one discovered itIwas told not to let him take it to school as they "didn't believe in that stuff" Work that out ! They only went to the Protestant school to keep FIL happy in the first place but it was selective about which parts of the "christian" story it told.
The crucifixion was fine but no happy wee angels ....religion...eh ..you couldn't make it up Or is it that heaven and hell thing to keep them in their place?

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 26-Mar-22 09:45:10

I recall being aware of the reality of the crucifixion from an early age. If you are a Christian you don’t try to sanitise it.

PECS Sat 26-Mar-22 08:00:25

Age appropriate is exactly right! Same with anything taught in school..it needs to be well matched to the children's/ students' stage of development.

Luckygirl3 Sat 26-Mar-22 07:44:22

........... but needs to be presented in an age appropriate way - or not at all in a state school.

There is no need for this level of detail. Children can be told that the gist of the fact that the bible story relates a murder, but not this grim detailed account.

Would children of this age be told every gruesome detail of the deaths of children in Ukraine; or of US prisoners in the electric chair; or of bloody details of a car accident? - no. And quite rightly.

Religion needs to conform to a level for decency and child protection.

Why would we expect children to hear this gruesome stuff, then go on to do maths or PE or play in the playground? It is so very wrong.

mumofmadboys Fri 25-Mar-22 22:26:16

The Cruxifiction was gruesome. It is hard to sanitise it. It is central to the Christian faith.

PECS Fri 25-Mar-22 22:11:08

Once, as head teacher, I invited a minister from a nearby church to come to our Infant school around Easter time to tell the children about the Christian festival. We were a community, not a faith school. I had to step in and stop his talk when he produced 6"nails! He had been briefed about age of children & the outline of what we felt was important for children to know: new life, hope etc. .It did not include details of how crucifixion is carried out!

welbeck Fri 25-Mar-22 21:44:12

that's unusual in CofE. sometimes happens in RC schools.
i guess it's up to her parents to complain.
what does the child feel about it.

Luckygirl3 Fri 25-Mar-22 21:07:36

My DGD, who is 9, came home with me from school today with a sheet of paper that she has to familiarise herself with before the school's Easter service at the church near the school.

I was horrified - it has the full force of the crucifixion: there is blood, there is gore, there are people flailing about with whips, there is a crown of thorns and blood dripping down his face. It is utterly gruesome - should we be inflicting this on young children? Should my DGD be tainted with this cruelty? Should she have to stand up and read this stuff?

If she is not horrified with it, then is she not being desensitised to human suffering? For me it is unacceptable in every way. More so because this is a state-funded school, it is her catchment school, she has no choice but to go there - it is a CofE school and it makes me furious that church is allowed to impinge on state in this way. I object very strongly to state-funded church schools.

I have had dealings with a number of state church controlled primaries and they would not dream of inflicting this level of inappropriate content on young children.

There is nothing I can do - but for sure if it were my DD she would not be reading this, neither to herself, nor in public,