Farzanah
BlueBelle
I don’t understand why you need a church or a name to live a decent life surely being Christian, Muslim, Sikh whatever is just a name for a group of people who are trying to live life caring for and about others and not breaking codes of healthy happy living I don’t understand why you need a ‘group thing’ yes I ve seen nastiness in churches I ve also known a paedophile who was a big name in a local church and no I m not gossiping he was in prison for his activities
Some churchgoers are holier than thou but just as damaged as or more so as non churchgoers
I agree BB I am a humanist and certainly don’t need a belief in a supernatural being to guide me in living a good life and caring for others. Do unto others as you would have them do to you is a universal truth.
Respecting all sentient beings and taking joy in the world around, with feelings of awe and wonder at times is not exclusive to those with a religious faith.
You can enjoy company with like minded people without a church.
Farzanah so you can, indeed. To be fair to the posters above, I don't think anyone would disagree with you.
I'm a Quaker, we don't have a creed nor "leaders" or vicars,
and I became one simply because I felt the wellsprings of a spirit that is in us yet beyond us without any family or even friend connections,
although I had met Quakers when my humanist parents were involved in the Peace Movements post WW2. I suppose it was a call in my heart that I had to listen to, an inevitable based in the simple faith of our very good headteacher at school.
But I'm equally likely to listen, when it comes to words, to a Buddhist or follower of another faith.
I could never accept a creed personally with the weight of historical abuses of the message of compassionate love and community although I know more conventional Christians whose views hardly differ from mine.
I don't believe in original sin, nor a "god" like a person who can change our everyday paths in life, because I think that to live is to be given the gift of choice towards living in love or evil, but we trip up all the time. Living in the Light involves specific commitments to each other which make cliques almost impossible, as there are few opportunities to hold power: meeting officers can only occupy positions for limited time periods.
The cliques described appall me but its true, they are in every walk of life. Quakers have ways of resolving disagreements which generally involve meetings (often endless) to try and hear out differences but inevitably sometimes its best to try another meeting.