Have you given up going to church but used to attend ?

I go every week now but never used to. One day I realised how much I had to be grateful to God for and since then I have been a ‘regular’. We are like a big extended family, love and support for each other.

I was a regular up to 60 years ago when I stood up to my parents and told them the indoctrination was over.

I am, however, extremely interested in religion and was planning a masters on the subject of Syncretism before I met my OH. We are too busy for now but if I get less mobile I might make a start.

Iam always surprised by people who because they did not like religion at school, or do not like the current minister, see that as a reason for giving up on religion. Surely loosing your belief, is a deep and serious thing, and is a decision that requires far more motivation like not liking the nums or the minister at your church.

I, like many others am of Irish catholic stock and went to many schools, most of them catholic, and was taught by some not very pleasant nuns. But I could always see the difference between them and what the religion they professed.

By the time I was 5, as a result of going to church regularly I understood that everyone was equal in the sight of God and that we were all sinners and I took that to mean, everyone is equal and none of us was perfect, so I understood that ,even adults, even my parents, did or said or acted in ways that were wrong or at least other than they should be.

These two beliefs have been the bedrock of all my moral values throughout my life and although my parents never said anything on the subject, I can see that both lived their lives on the same principles.

This has given me a sense of loyalty to my religion and I still profess it, but professing a religion, does not mean that you accept everything it teaches, anymore than if you join a political party you accept absolutely everything it stands for and every policy it proclaims.

I am greatly wrapped up in the church as my ancestors were mainly vicars or doctors. My DH is a cathedral chorister so I sometimes attend services 3 times a weekend.
Having said that, I don't think God really cares whether I worship at church or at home, though I do find a certain spirituality from physically being within the 4 walls of a church. Our children do not go to church. I'm with BigBerthal's comments about a traditional service with a good sermon. I don't like the more modern worship and I don't think it appeals to the younger generation either.

3 Church of Scotland churches in my town have merged into one recently and the old buildings may be converted into flats.
I attend Quaker meeting when I can.
DiL is a churchgoer and takes the DC to Sunday School but none of my DC are.
Change is inevitable and people vote with their feet.
Faith in Action is the way now, as you say floradora and they are the Carers, the people who volunteer, and everyone who makes life easier for others.

I go to a lively church in a south coast town with a vibrant assortment of all denominations. We have 13 different churches who come together at times. The worship is lovely. Everyone has a warm welcome, as Jesus would give. Churches here run toddler groups, food banks and other community groups.

I’m another where a RC education put me off for life (I was CofE)
I’m atheist now. I find going to religious ceremonies like weddings really uncomfortable too.

Yes.
I don't like the 'peace be with you' part of the service. Some people go so far as kissing strangers - sorry, not for me.

Count me in with Blossoming
Never felt the ‘call’ and at 71, I suspect I never will. I used to go to Church with my Gran, but as a favour and out of love for her, not God.

Similar to Charleygirl I stopped going at 16, 57 years ago after having cruel nuns, priests and brothers bullying and beating Catholicism into me.

We are both c of e and used to be regular attendees until the services changed and were 'modernised'. We both love a traditional service with a good sermon, Wesleyan hymns, readings from theKing James Bible and the prayer book ....all gone now. I know DH has his own quiet way of worshipping and praying but I've lost it all and don't know what I believe in now. It's very sad.

I’m an atheist. I go to church if invited to other peoplr’s celebrations but that’s all.

I was taken every week by my parents. I took RE at A level and began to question religion. I continued to go as a social thing into adulthood, even taking a preaching course to support a friend. We moved to a different area and I never felt the need to go to church
That was 20 years ago. I think I'm more agnostic than atheist.

Some churches run the food banks....

Yes, was once a regular attender. Various things happened and at some point I started to wonder why I went to church and that I didn’t have to believe in any God.

Today , I just try to treat people as I want to be treated and do not subscribe or belong to any particular religion.

Floradora I come from an Irish/catholic background on my mother's side, my father went to a Church of Scotland church each week.

I went to a boarding school run by nuns and they finished me off, church x2 a day every day of the week.

I was around 17 when one Sunday at home I told my mother I was not going to church with her. She could hardly take me there kicking and screaming but apart from weddings etc I not entered a church since.

I try to attend Sunday service (evening). I don’t get up early enough to catch the Morning Mass. Don’t know how long I can carry on. The evenings will get dark and I will be giving up night driving sooner rather than later. Although, my friend who recently lost her husband, has decided to start driving again at 82 !! Yes, at 82 ! So, who knows …..