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Being conned whilst shopping

(35 Posts)
Oldmutton Fri 02-Dec-22 22:32:46

I feel such a fool. Whilst out shopping I was approached by a woman and a boy of about nine years old. The woman wondered if I might like to sponsor the boy. Apparently he was going to do a sponsored swim in memory of his grandad in aid of the lifeboats. My instinct was to say yes of course. They produced a sheet with names and amounts. All for £10! I gave them a fiver, asked him how far he was swimming and that was that. It was only when I was walking away that I realised how stupid I had been. Why wasn't the boy at school? People wouldn't be handing over £10 in the street. Whatever was I thinking of?
I shall be more careful in future!

BlueBelle Thu 25-May-23 23:05:24

Well I don’t have to have the same view as you Violet and nor do the homeless charities but glad you know best

NanaDana Fri 26-May-23 06:46:31

If I'm ever approached for a charity contribution either in the street or by a cold-caller knocking at the door, I politely refuse and explain that I give to three charities monthly by direct debit. Exceptions are British Legion poppy sellers and RNLI collection boxes. So many scams out there these days.

Juliet27 Fri 26-May-23 07:37:01

If it was a scam then it’s a shame the boy has learned and been used to con at such an early age.

choughdancer Fri 26-May-23 08:57:59

Farzanah

mumofmadboys

You were kind Oldmutton. That is the main thing

I agree. It was only £5 and it may have been genuine. It’s easy to be suspicious these days, but I try and put myself in the shoes of those who need to approach complete strangers for money.

I agree with these comments.

sodapop Fri 26-May-23 12:33:00

It was a kind thing to do but also leaves one open to purse or bag snatching. Sad when we have to think like this.

TwiceAsNice Fri 26-May-23 12:59:22

On another note I never give money to someone begging on our high st but I do give him the coffee and sandwich I’ve bought on the way back

pascal30 Fri 26-May-23 18:25:56

This thread was started in late Dec 22 when the boy could have been on school hols... maybe legit but only £5 if not.. kind of the OP though

Caramme Sat 27-May-23 07:38:04

Who knows what her circumstances were. What this says to me is that you are a generous, kind hearted person and you don’t need to feel bad about that.

lemsip Sat 27-May-23 08:31:09

Mintymoo

I don’t understand how this could’ve been a scam. I remember a 5k charity run which included kids and they accepted cash donations around the supermarket

*Your a bit late mintymoo .
this was posted back in DEC*

why not start a new one