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Grans are grandma's and grandpa's

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pompa Sun 06-May-12 20:53:22

In a recent thread it was stated :-

"I am so tempted to ask "which bit of GRANS-net do you not understand.
But I know grandads seem to be welcome on here. (A policy I do not agree with)"

If members do not agree with this policy, why did they join ? The opening line of About Gransnet clearly states :-

"Gransnet® is the social networking site for grandparents. "

The description continues to talk about GrandMothers and GrandFathers.

If you haven't read it you will find it here :- www.gransnet.com/info/about

I have generally found most members welcome some male input, even they do not agree with it. Unless Gransnet® changes it's policy this site is for all grandparents, male, female, young and old and long may it be so.

pompa Tue 08-May-12 17:41:45

Sorry Anagram, I'm still recovering from 3 hours shoe shopping. Brain dead.

Anagram Tue 08-May-12 17:22:49

It wasn't me who asked the question, pompa! Are you stalking me? hmm
Just because I raised the cake issue.....wink

pompa Tue 08-May-12 17:19:52

Anagram - that is an unfair question, any answer I suggest, however well intended, would get me well and truly mullered. grin Especially by Mrs. P.

absentgrana Tue 08-May-12 17:19:05

Anagram Doesn't really roll off the tongue with the appropriate degree of contempt, does it? smile

Anagram Tue 08-May-12 17:10:09

Female chauvinist sow? grin

absentgrana Tue 08-May-12 17:06:54

What is the equivalent female term for male chauvinist pig? Just wondered. smile

pompa Tue 08-May-12 17:05:58

Tea shops are our downfall, I guess it's because we have a higher than average number of retired people in our area, but every nursery and farm shop seems to be sprouting a new cafe lately. We now have 5 in our village - all serving fantastic cakes etc.

Bags Tue 08-May-12 17:02:02

The very first female boat-builder in Britain worked for the boat-builders who used to live in our house. She sometimes had her knitting on the go while she was at the tiller.

AlisonMA Tue 08-May-12 16:47:04

One of the many great things we discovered after moving to Malvern from the southeast is lots of tea shops and they all sell home made food. I loves the scones but am trying to lose weight so it was a mistake to start reading this forum!

Bags Tue 08-May-12 16:46:48

Quite! smile

pompa Tue 08-May-12 16:45:29

So that's it -- sitting down, male task
Multi tasking - female

Simple. !

Bags Tue 08-May-12 16:38:37

Knitting is only a special kind of weaving and loom type weaving was traditionally a male preserve, after the women had done the spinning. You can do spinning and knitting while you are walking about watching kids. You can move it from place to place so that you can multi-task. Loom weaving is more of a sit down job.

pompa Tue 08-May-12 16:34:18

LOL, knitting is one of my areas of expertise - well sort of - Mrs. P started knitting againg after about 50 years, it was me that kept finding the You Tube vids to help her out. And the coffee and sympathy each time she had to undo it.

Bags Tue 08-May-12 16:34:06

Have you been on The Waverley, harri or pompa? If not, I recommend it. It's the last sea-going paddle steamer in the world.

Bags Tue 08-May-12 16:32:49

Lots of men knit.

Well, some anyway. No reason why they shouldn't.

Think Kaffe Fassett for a start.

harrigran Tue 08-May-12 16:17:58

Like Greatnan and Jeni I lke to talk about steam trains and traction engines and oh the lovely steamboats on the lakes. We can hardly talk to the Grandpas about knitting. I am happy for them to be here and to talk to them with the exception of one who pm me.

Greatnan Tue 08-May-12 15:58:50

I think I must be gender-blind - I don't care what sex someone is, as long as they post coherent, well thought out/amusing posts.
On the other hand, I was a member of an expat forum where we had to set up a 'Women Only' section because some men would post really vile comments if a woman wanted to discuss some personal health issue. The Grnasnet men are not like that, I am sure, so I hope they stay and recruit their friends.

Anagram Tue 08-May-12 15:41:59

Exactly, when!

whenim64 Tue 08-May-12 15:27:04

I like the 'mostly women' atmosphere, too. Before I retired, I managed a group of all female staff in a female offenders' hostel, and we had a policy of only recruiting women but allowing male staff to work occasional shifts there. That seemed to work ok as long as the balance stayed predominantly women, not because we were anti-men but because it was meant to be a female environment dealing with women's issues. That's how I see Gransnet in the main, but the occasional chat with grandads, and hearing their views, is fine with me smile

Nonny Tue 08-May-12 13:50:06

Perhaps the name should be grandsnet!

soop Tue 08-May-12 13:21:12

pompa Mrs P is all woman! grin

imjingl Tue 08-May-12 13:03:43

Sigh.

I'm nowhere near the ceiling.

Just putting my point of view.

Yawn.

Bye.

Annobel Tue 08-May-12 12:59:38

You don't have to chat to men if you don't want to, jingle. There might - hypothetically, of course - be some women I'd rather not chat to. That would be my choice and my right.

Elegran Tue 08-May-12 12:46:36

Come down off the ceiling Jings You would say yourself that anyone who does not want to read what you post can ignore it or stay away, so don't bridle at someone else saying it.

What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

imjingl Tue 08-May-12 12:44:24

I don't want to start chatting to men.

To be perfectly honest.

Not ones I don't know.