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j08 Wed 28-Aug-13 08:54:23

Is this a forum for normal everyday women of the 21st century, or a cosy little space for older ladies straight from the local church hall and with their own sweet reminisces of finishing school or, at the very least memories of the school hockey field and sewing lessons with the nuns?

It would appear that under the new regime, in the soon to be absence of the slightly more broadminded Geraldine, we are not allowed to use even the most inoffensive of Anglo Saxon words. Like FUCK.

Are those amongst us who came here from anything goes Mumsnet supposed to have turned into virtuous beings overnight? How? Why?

Is n' t it ageist to allow younger women to swear, but not older ones?

hmm

thatbags Wed 28-Aug-13 12:19:03

HQ deletes posts that insult or attack another poster or posters directly, or ones which advertise. That's it. That's the rule. So if a post has been deleted, that's why. What could be simpler?

So if you just come on GN and find a post or thread has been deleted, then it's just tough luck if you missed it and want to know exactly what was in it – unless someone tells tou privately of course.

Why should HQ waste time telling us the same thing every time they need to delete something. The reason is always that it broke GN rules.

What I marvel at is their good humoured patience in the face of all the silly complaints.

Ana Wed 28-Aug-13 12:19:16

Except that a lot of their later posts were deleted, so Brenda can hardly make an informed judgement on whether or not they kept to the guidelines.

thatbags Wed 28-Aug-13 12:21:10

I think Jess is right and j08 just got her big wooden spoon out again and is now laughing into her coffee wink

Elegran Wed 28-Aug-13 12:21:20

She can judge by the general tone of their undeleted posts, and the reaction of moderate posters to the ones which have vanished, and extrapolate from that.

Ana Wed 28-Aug-13 12:21:34

Or was that your point, Elegran? confused

Time to walk the metaphorical dogs, I think...

thatbags Wed 28-Aug-13 12:24:27

Do you have real dogs, ana?

Elegran Wed 28-Aug-13 12:24:47

Time to go for the shower I was planning to have after my breakfast . . .

janeainsworth Wed 28-Aug-13 12:28:57

I've just read Geraldine's farewell thread telling us that Cari and Lara are taking over as joint editors.
That seemed to make the OP seem even more like the naughty schoolgirl seeing how far she could go in annoying the new teacher.
Except I wouldn't have said Year 10 - more like junior 2.

Sel Wed 28-Aug-13 12:32:16

I've had an hour wielding my Karcher machine, everything is clean, including the cat and I'm feeling strangely calm and benign smile

whenim64 Wed 28-Aug-13 12:36:32

grin Sel. I like using the hosepipe, or having a good bonfire. Has the same effect! smile

Elegran Wed 28-Aug-13 12:36:45

Ana Brenda My point was - If you know nothing, then say nothing but Brenda does have a way to get a little taste of typical previous posts to base her observations on, if she wishes to do so.

Brenda, your posts are admirably grammatical and well-typed. Your dyslexia is not hindering you at all.

Ana Wed 28-Aug-13 12:44:29

Elegran, it was not me who raised the quesion of some members having more influence than others.

Bags, no, I don't.

j08 Wed 28-Aug-13 12:47:37

Gordon Bennett! Can't read this lot!

Had an email from Charlotte telling me off for calling some wolves "fucking". They had 2 complaints.

Ainsworth stuff off

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 28-Aug-13 12:54:32

Oops - I clearly forgot the bit about no poster having any more influence than anyone else. But that is absolutely the case* Everyone is equal and no one is more equal than anyone else (now picturing George Orwell spinning in his grave)

*(unless they make us cake on a daily basis of course - we are only human after all cupcake cupcake cupcake)

Ana Wed 28-Aug-13 13:01:14

Hmm...that must be it then! Come on, own up, who's baking industrial quantities of cupcakes every day to ferry over to GNHQ...? grin

Sel Wed 28-Aug-13 13:13:30

Certainly not me Ana I'm hopeless round a mixing bowl grin I have 16 coming on Sunday from Age UK for afternoon tea and I'm panicking. It'll end up being a re-run of school fetes when I roughed up M & S cakes in an attempt to make them look home made.

petallus Wed 28-Aug-13 13:32:20

j08 how depressing that two people complained because you said 'fucking'.

I wonder if you would have been told off if nobody had complained.

Back to cakes!

Now I'm off to post on a new thread about my outrageous behaviour in Waitrose car park this morning.

petallus Wed 28-Aug-13 13:42:09

Incidentally, every time I see the word 'fracking' I think it would be a good substitute for the other word.

thatbags Wed 28-Aug-13 13:45:54

I want to know which wolves.

They do, of course. Wolves, I mean. Just like other sexual animals.

petallus Wed 28-Aug-13 13:46:48

grin

thatbags Wed 28-Aug-13 13:49:07

However, it wouldn't surprise me if jings wasn't really referring to wolves at all, and that that's why there were complaints.

Ana Wed 28-Aug-13 13:53:52

There was certainly talk of wolves on one of the climate change threads...
(Real wolves, that is.)

Anne58 Wed 28-Aug-13 13:57:27

j08 I don't think you should have put a name up there ^ hmm

Elegran Wed 28-Aug-13 14:02:55

I suspect that was me, Phoenix. It may be deleted any moment now (that is, if anyone reports it)

kittylester Wed 28-Aug-13 14:03:50

I've just come back to this thread and would concur with elegran. smile

However, when I used the word 'worthy' I was not talking about threads or posts but posters being made to feel unworthy. There does seem to be a very strident group of people, mostly with left wing views, who allow no other opinion to go unchallenged in the most vociferous way, even in the interests of keeping GN peaceful. sad

GN is the most wonderful place when one needs support and can also be silly, informative and the place for a good gossip. I feel it is a shame that serious threads seem to be very vicious and dismissive of even the most tentative disagreement. sad

I would like to thank all the posters who have supported me in my various tribulations and joys flowers