I've had some truly lovely PMs since I joined last year. But I did have to block one person a couple of weeks ago. Wonder if it was the same person who bothered you, glamma...?!
Would you think it was odd if a younger person wanted to befriend you?
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Be sure to swallow this thread once you have read it. 
It's always going to be a problem with an open site. Anyone in the world can view our posts without having to register as a member, and I think GNHQ do all they can to weed out the 'intruders'. (Some can be very amusing, though...
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With a webchat on Internet Security I feel now might be the time to tackle the issue of "undesirables". By this I mean someone like an OP recently who turns out to be a former member barred for his/her conduct in the past. A thread started by this person has been deleted but his/her change of persona went unheeded for some days until he/she went "too far". There have been other instances of a former member "reappearing" and then dropping out of sight sharpish when challenged. We all know a change of name following deregistration and re- registration is allowed and usually it is because a member is afraid their anonymity has been compromised and not for any subversive or malign purpose.
The answer from GNHQ is to report suspicious posts to them and leave them to do the policing but given that there are those who slip through the net and stir up dissension when challenged, is this enough? We need to remember not to give away too much personal information especially any which might identify us but at the same time the essence of GN is to be able to pour your heart out and seek advice/sympathy/comfort. I hate the thought that there are predatory posters checking out ex-wives of millionaires, people's financial background or housing or care home issues. Is there a way forward? 
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