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Arguments attract aggressors.

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Elegran Sun 03-May-15 10:59:07

I wonder if anyone else has the impression that a good ding-dong on a thread seems very often to attract swarms of spammers and inspires trouble-makers to start up new threads on controversial and divisive subjects and keep stoking them?

Most of the time the forum goes along as usual, lots of conversations and exchanges, mostly goodnatured chat or reasoned debate with the occasional raised voice. Sometimes a more heated debate gets going, where more people join in. After that, there is a rash of angry threads which seem to come from nowhere, started by people I have never heard of before, and lots of posts wanting us to go to someone's website and presumably spend money there.

I assume they see the arguments on a search engine, and think "Is this a private fight or can anyone join in?" so they join set GN and set up their boxing ring (or their market stall on the edge of the bare-knuckle bout)

I don't include here the anger in some threads from established posters - they are not the opportunist hitchhikers I am talking about.

Anya Tue 05-May-15 09:40:02

Anya didn't get any full fury as it would have meant some posters exposing themselves (as it were!!)

But I have to say that Soutra's reply to Magpie was unpleasantness poorly disguised as humour, and anyone who thought it funny is either complicit or too nice to look behind the lines.

Ariadne Tue 05-May-15 09:07:42

grin

Eloethan Tue 05-May-15 01:08:12

Soutra smile

Soutra Mon 04-May-15 18:23:01

You seem convinced the majority of GN members have sad lives tcrconfused magpie, so presumably you must see your mission as one of entertaining us and cheering us all up, can't wait! tcrgrin

loopylou Mon 04-May-15 17:46:52

You aren't the only one who's emoticon-bereft rosequartz sad, I guess I haven't been around long enough or am too IT-clueless to grasp the basics! If they don't appear in the list at the bottom then that's that!

Elegran Mon 04-May-15 17:41:32

Anya didn't get any full fury though, magpie so we are perhaps not as sad as you thought. In fact, there seems to be quite a lot of humour and tolerance on this thread. There usually is unless someone intolerant or agressive comes along with their two-pennorth.

magpie123 Mon 04-May-15 17:21:11

Anya well said. Sad lives that all I can think of.

rosequartz Sun 03-May-15 20:32:56

I can do this one though
grin

rosesarered Sun 03-May-15 20:25:04

That would be YOU then Rosequartz!grin

rosequartz Sun 03-May-15 20:23:11

And peeple who cant get the emoticonns

Ana Sun 03-May-15 20:22:29

I hope they don't confiscate our biscuit biscuit biscuit

That would be mean!

rosequartz Sun 03-May-15 20:22:17

Luk out fer badd speling roseserredd that is orlways an indikayshen of a newcummer.

[tbhgrin]

rosesarered Sun 03-May-15 20:17:24

True, Ana, and now we are in there is no stopping us!crown daffodil
dragon shamrock
I must admit I have not seen these new posters Elegran, but don't always bother to trawl through long threads.

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 03-May-15 20:13:57

grin you are in such trouble.

Ana Sun 03-May-15 20:11:28

Don't mention flashing...tchshock

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 03-May-15 20:09:30

If only we could find a way to put a moving, or a flashing one, up. That would get 'em worried. grin

Ariadne Sun 03-May-15 20:09:05

smile

Ana Sun 03-May-15 20:07:23

Oh, they must have noticed by now! Anyway, it's not our fault, someone in the tech department must have forgotten to lock the cupboard...thlwink

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 03-May-15 20:04:43

shock I think you are gonna be in BIG trouble when they see you've been raiding their emoti stash! shock

It's not me. I didn't do it. [halo]

petallus Sun 03-May-15 20:04:29

But you haven't walked away Nelliemoser grin

Nelliemoser Sun 03-May-15 19:53:00

What I cannot understand is how some posters seem to find it it impossible to walk away.
Many of these threads reach a point where anything that can be said about an issue has been said.

At which point it is time to go home, or have some harmless fun hacking GNHQs stash of emoticons. dragon daffodil crown moon sunshine

and those with the complicated codes. We need a Dove of peace.

Ana Sun 03-May-15 19:45:17

You're right Ariadne, there are far more important things...sad

Ariadne Sun 03-May-15 19:40:07

Oh, I am so sorry! And it was stupidly trivial of me to mention it anyway. in the great scheme of things, all this doesn't really matter blush

Ana Sun 03-May-15 19:33:06

Perhaps they wrote letters in green ink to their local newspapers?

rosequartz Sun 03-May-15 19:29:52

shock it's a scary world out there that I didn't know existed!

What did these people do before the www - go around shouting at everyone or suppressing their hatred and angst?