NFK I got told off good and proper when I affectionately mentionned here we were hosting the village 'old biddies' for lunch, I call myself an old biddie (and most of them are 10 to 20 years older- and lovely too)- DD2 calls me the 'fossil' - it's all the attitude, really, not about words.
Aside, musicians, a 3rd one was a surprise- arrived at midnight after 14 hrs driving in the rain- the
was a bit overcooked- but they tucked in with gusto. One is playing the piano now, and the violinist and the HANG player still fast asleep- bless.