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GrannyGear Sat 05-Dec-15 16:59:12

Like so many other organisations Gransnet invites us to "like us on Facebook". I might do just that if only I could find out how confused
All I can find on Facebook is how to join. I don't want to "join" I just want to look at one of the entries. Apparently this is not allowed. If I could find some straightforward info about Facebook, I might join. It is as though some club (e.g. W.I., National Trust, Freemasons) were to say "pay your subscription, give us all your personal data contact email and phone number and then, but only then, will we let you know what we do and what you can get out of joining!
Am I the only one who finds this off-putting? Why won't Facebook say what they offer? Is it a list of names and email addresses so you can say "someone of that name was at school with me, wonder if it's the same one?"and then ask to be her "friend"?
Can someone let me into the secret please?
On second thoughs perhaps I'll stick to Gransnet and other forums plus my blog.

JulieGransnet (GNHQ) Sat 05-Dec-15 17:20:51

Hi, GrannyGear.

Good questions smile Facebook is another social media tool, you search for people who you know, like family and friends, so you can keep in touch with them.

It's free to join, and if you want to, you sign in at the top (where it says sign up in the green box). Once you've signed up, you can search for friends or family members, you then send them a friends request (and they can send them to you too). Once they have accepted your request their posts (pictures, comments about what they have been doing, sometimes general rants) appear on your 'Home' page (this is the page where you can see everything from your friends and family). You can also 'like' business pages (ie, the Gransnet page), so you can see our posts on your main 'Home' page, and you can post comments to us also. You can see our facebook page without joining, but you won't be able to post on there; www.facebook.com/gransnet/

You can do lots on there, like play games or join groups, but you don't have to. It's just an excellent way to keep in touch with family and friends who you may not have the chance to see too often.

tanith Sat 05-Dec-15 17:42:42

GrannyGear it costs nothing to join and you don't have to do anything on Facebook if you don't want to I don't know why you can't just 'look' I always thought you could. Usually if a page says 'like us on facebook' you will see a small Facebook Icon you can just click on that and it will take you there.. you may have to join to like someone/site but you can do that without giving them any personal info and then just never go there again if you don't want to.
I love FB just for the fact I keep up with the daily goings on of distant family and friends and search for groups that are relevant to me, I found some of the groups invaluable in looking for information when OH was seriously ill this year I was able to get answers to lots of questions about his illness answered by people who had gone through it.

I hope that helps

janeainsworth Sat 05-Dec-15 17:49:22

Yes I agree Tanith, and it's not just family and friends - if you 'like' businesses, their news appears on your FB newsfeed and you get to hear about events that might otherwise pass you by.
For example couple of years ago we saw a blues band perform at the Edinburgh Fringe and after that I 'followed' them on FB.
They actually came to a pub in Newcastle last week and we were able to go and see them again - we would never have known about the gig except through FB.

Teetime Sat 05-Dec-15 17:52:50

I use Facebook a lot to see what my family are up to and they post photos there as well. Its a quick and easy way to keep up with old friends. I also play a scrabble game with a distant friend and she enjoys beating me all the time. More seriously I started a Facebook page when I was co-ordinating a local campaign and that worked very well. I am in one other group - the Agatha Raisen Fan Club which is sometimes about books and often about other things- chatting with like minded people from the USA in that group is very enjoyable. You can give it a go and stop it as soon as you feel like it.

Nelliemoser Sat 05-Dec-15 18:07:32

grannygear One piece of advice is to put as little information about yourself as you wish.

Not birth dates where you live or where you work etc and you can make a lot of things private. It might help to get someone to show you how to set up I don't find it easy and I have been on here for a while.

My older sister was persuaded to try it by me and her daughter, she is slowly getting the idea and seems to be enjoying it.

loopylou Sat 05-Dec-15 18:12:33

I did join FB but got completely cheesed off by hundreds of 'Friends' requests from people I'd never heard of before.
I rarely go on it now.

tanith Sat 05-Dec-15 18:33:34

loopylou you just ignore requests if you wish to no one says you have to respond.

janeainsworth Sat 05-Dec-15 18:42:26

I occasionally get friend requests from people I don't know - I always decline them.

JulieGransnet (GNHQ) Sat 05-Dec-15 18:52:04

loopylou

I did join FB but got completely cheesed off by hundreds of 'Friends' requests from people I'd never heard of before.
I rarely go on it now.

Hi, Loopy. I think you need to change your privacy settings. What you do is go to the top and to the padlock on the right of the screen. Press that, and scroll down to 'who can contact me'. Change it from 'everyone' to 'friends of friends'. This means that you can still search for everyone you know, but only friends of people who you already know can contact you.

loopylou Sat 05-Dec-15 18:52:47

I realise that I can ignore them, I guess it just isn't for me.
I don't do Twitter or LinkedIn either!

MiniMouse Sat 05-Dec-15 19:21:09

I've just had to delete my FB account because it was hacked into angry The hacker put a profole picture (I didn't have one before) and added personal information, which wasn't about me at all. I had entered minimal info on my account after hearing horror stories! Quite scary ehat hackers can do shock

loopylou Sat 05-Dec-15 19:30:06

Thank you Julie GN!
tchblush proves how little I know about using FB!

GrannyGear Sat 05-Dec-15 19:35:01

Julie Gransnet
Many thanks. This is the info I needed. Facebook wouldn't tell me this. Maybe it was somewhere on the "Queries" page but I couldn't find it.
By the way, when I followed your link to facebook.com/gransnet/ it just sent me back to the Gransnet home page.
At least I now know that I can see pages for various organisations without having to join facebook.
I really can't see why facebook is so user-unfriendly.

Stansgran Sat 05-Dec-15 19:45:48

Am I alone in thinking it can be quite dangerous? People seem to over invest in it and I get the impression that "they" know who I email. My brother died years ago but I never deleted his emails to me- they were often funny- and suddenly I had a request from FB about some heavy metal type with the same name suggesting I follow them. Spooked me.