Gransnet forums

Site stuff

Deleted PMs - This is important

(255 Posts)
MawBroon Mon 18-Feb-19 20:59:54

I was concerned to find that some of my private messages around 20 December last year have disappeared, apparently “deleted at user request”.
Well I certainly did not delete them so the question is “which user” ?
How can anybody interfere with private messages- I thought the clue was in the name.
Izabella Annodomini and Lemongrove might like to check theirs too.
Coincidentally they were generally on the same topic.
Is Big Brother not only watching us but censoring our mail?
I take a dim view of this breach of confidentiality if that is indeed the case .

annep1 Tue 19-Feb-19 08:34:00

It does worry me because recently my email and facebook were accessed. I had to change my email address and close facebook which still is ongoing problem.. And change lots of account passwords. i think they are all linked.

Marydoll Tue 19-Feb-19 08:43:07

I too have had duplicated PMs in the last week. I too assumed the poster had just posted twice in error.

BradfordLass72 Tue 19-Feb-19 08:43:29

I had exactly the same trouble maw - I thought it was a computer glitch at first but as so many have had the problem, I now think you're right, they are not private.

Having said that, although my messages to and from other posters were very personal and sensitive there was no reason even GNHQ would want them deleted.

MawBroon Tue 19-Feb-19 08:49:16

There is no obvious pattern and it is certainly not “a glitch”
The double sending PMs might be as that seemed to happen around the “Error message -bad gateway” whatever time.
But this seems to have been happening over a period of time and as well as private conversations, personal information such as RL names, mobile numbers and email addresses may have been in those messages.
I do think it raises serious concerns about security as well as confidentiality.
A right can of worms indeed! ? ? ?

dragonfly46 Tue 19-Feb-19 08:53:18

I often get duplicated messages from different people. I just delete the duplicate.

kittylester Tue 19-Feb-19 08:55:37

I haven't had any messages deleted but have had duplicates from some people.

lemongrove Tue 19-Feb-19 09:02:15

Is HQ coming back on this today?

lemongrove Tue 19-Feb-19 09:04:16

Maw as an experiment I will go and delete your messages, and see if you get the deleted at users request back?

MissAdventure Tue 19-Feb-19 09:09:16

I can't check mine, because a huge advert for border healthcare is in the way.
No matter how carefully I click, I get taken to their website.

Bathsheba Tue 19-Feb-19 09:18:14

I've had two of my sent messages deleted "at user's request". Both to the same person. The three messages from her - part of the same conversation - are still there, so I seriously doubt she was clearing her mailboxes.

The deleted sent messages were dated 31 Oct - Halloween shock. Ghoulies and ghosties and long leggedy beasties perhaps?

MawBroon Tue 19-Feb-19 09:22:28

Yes lemongrove they have that message sad
Somehow I feel rejected. Also I can’t remember what you said in them now! grin

Urmstongran Tue 19-Feb-19 09:25:21

Just checked mine. I don’t get many (billy no mates!) but all there apart from a couple which had been sent from old batty ages ago.

Kateykrunch Tue 19-Feb-19 10:19:00

I queried with HQ when I first had this, as whilst I accept someone may wish to delete their message, I think it is unacceptable that your message can be deleted. They said that was the procedure.
Also as someone has mentioned, often with pm’s you may give more personal info such as a private email address, I had expected that this was indeed private, but if someone can randomly delete ‘your’ message, then obviously access to these pm’s are not private at all. Watching this thread with interest!

Jalima1108 Tue 19-Feb-19 11:05:41

It seems to have gone back to at least to June 2018 - you can tell that I don't empty my in or sent boxes very frequently.

Thank you for bringing it to our attention MawBroon, it is very worrying.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 19-Feb-19 11:16:07

I had approximately 10 PMs deleted all from the same person back in September/October 2018. All these had the same message "deleted at senders request".

As a relatively newbie, I thought I had inadvertently upset this person.

B9exchange Tue 19-Feb-19 11:26:07

I had two deleted from OldBatty too, end of November, it does seem to particularly affect her, though others too?

Chewbacca Tue 19-Feb-19 11:43:06

I've just received a pm from someone on here. I've tried to reply to you but I can't. Every time I hit "send from Chewbacca", it deletes the message.

I'm not liking this. Security appears to be compromised and GNHQ are still not offering any credible explanation.

Chewbacca Tue 19-Feb-19 11:48:28

And to the person that sent me the pm 12 minutes ago..... I can no longer read it because it says "message deleted at user request". Please don't think I'm ignoring you or have deliberately deleted your pm. It's just not accessible to me any more. angry

Jalima1108 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:08:00

^I'm not liking this. Security appears to be compromised and GNHQ are still not offering any credible explanation.
Me neither.

Sometimes when I pressed 'send' I got a box with an encrypted message in it, then the message would go the second time I pressed send.
Sometimes I got the same message two or three times in a row from a sender.

Jalima1108 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:09:02

Try your inbox again Chewbacca

Chewbacca Tue 19-Feb-19 12:12:00

Just checked inbox again and I can see your message Jalima but it won't allow me to send you any reply. GNHQ what's going on?

GrannyGravy13 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:13:41

Jalima I have just checked my inbox and your messages to me Nov/Dec are showing "deleted and senders request"???

Jalima1108 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:15:57

I just deleted a lot of messages in my sent box GG13 - I didn't mean to delete them all but got over-enthusiastic!

I don't know why, Chewbacca, I haven't blocked anyone. It's all very peculiar.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:16:16

Also some of my sent messages are showing as "deleted at users request"

GrannyGravy13 Tue 19-Feb-19 12:17:01

?? Jalima