Also, there was nowhere to state that one was ill so could not take part in any festivities. The assumption was that everybody had a large family so was either catering for them or going to them to be catered for food-wise.
If I had not been ill I would still have been on my own.
Maybe the survey was not for me because I also do not have grabdchildren.
Do you still share your DH / OH interests or hobbies?