I'm a lurker, I like reading the posts but am a bit nervous of joining in the discussions. I have 5 grandchildren, 4 in Switzerland and 1 in Australia. So I am a Skyper and a Whatsnetter and we get by with a visit when we have saved up especially for Australia. I started reading the posts a while ago because I wondered how others coped being a long-distance grandparent. I read some great posts and one gran suggested writing a letter to grandchildren abroad. I started doing this and I found it a lovely way to keep in touch, I get so much enjoyment from this and I know they love receiving my letters. I'm really grateful to the person who suggested this.