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phoenix Tue 31-Mar-20 19:28:53

Evening all, good wishes to you.

Starting by stating the obvious, this is Gransnet. By its very name, the majority of members who might have done an online search looking for forums for those of a like mind, are likely to be women. Some will be men, of course, and I'm sure they are very welcome. Often (not always!) their input can be of great value and enable a different viewpoint on the topic.

Although I have not asked GNHQ for a breakdown of figures (surely they have enough on there plate at present) chances are they might:

A) Not have them (names don't necessarily indicate gender) or:

B) Cannot release the figures due to data protection.

Now, with these things in mind, shall we look at the logic?

With more female members than male, who is more likely to be posting on forums? And (in certain circumstances, and on certain threads) WHO are they likely to be posting about?

In the main, these posts are posted with humour and affection.

Surely they can be accepted and taken as such, without being seen as a "dig" or attack, or put down?

I hope this post is taken in the spirit that it is meant.

Lucca Wed 01-Apr-20 11:49:54

It was GrannyLaine who mentioned quasi French, I was replying to her ? Possibly didn’t type post properly, my eyes are very sore today.

Lucca Wed 01-Apr-20 11:48:23

Callistemon. No, why? I just couldn’t find it,like MawB, maybe it’s on the original thread, sorry.

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 11:35:12

Are you French Lucca?

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 11:34:16

I'll post some quasi Welsh instead

Whose coat is that jacket over by year?
Mine perthyn ee Dai

With apologies

Lucca Wed 01-Apr-20 11:33:08

Granny Laine. Just for clarity, my "crying with laughter" was at the ridiculous quasi French that was being bandied about.
That’s ok.

I would like to clarify, I’m not the fun police, as I said in my post the stuff about men being hopeless blah blah Is not what I’m talking about, it’s the very personal attack on anyone I.e. one person, who disagrees criticising their writing style etc
Mamacaz thanks for understanding !

MawB Wed 01-Apr-20 11:29:30

Still failing to find the quasi French sad

MawB Wed 01-Apr-20 11:28:40

Love it Bathsheba !

Alexa Wed 01-Apr-20 10:53:14

Some topics are genderless. I inhabit another forum where the topics are genderless, that is to say contributors aim to be objective.

There is no geography, mathematics, physics, philosophy, or poetry and so forth limited to a woman's point of view.

Bathsheba Wed 01-Apr-20 10:51:23

Maw this one's for you

I don't know why I'm laughing

GrannyLaine Wed 01-Apr-20 10:43:38

MawB
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1275798-I-tried-I-really-did

It's this one. Prob need a hanky and spare knickers to hand

MamaCaz Wed 01-Apr-20 10:42:12

Just to clarify - I found all the comments very amusing in themselves, but when one single person (or rather two, if you include the jokes about that person's wife) exclusively became the butt of them, it ceased to be amusing, and started to feel more like a group of bullies huddled together in a corner, justifying their behaviour on the grounds that it was all said in jest.

Davidhs Wed 01-Apr-20 10:39:42

“Men dont cook” this is light hearted observation

I can and do cook quite well, but I do restrict how often, household politics mean it’s her kitchen, occasional cooking is welcome, ruling it is not.

Young men cook more than they get credit for both my elder grandsons can and do cook well, all the younger ones boys and girls are taught by mum which is just as well because they learn nothing at school

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 10:32:37

Yes, a Margot Leadbetter moment!!

MawB Wed 01-Apr-20 10:30:01

Lucca
Just for clarity, my "crying with laughter" was at the ridiculous quasi French that was being bandied about

Could somebody please direct me to this quasi French
I could do with a laugh.
Phoenix - hang on in there, you are always witty and amusing.
Some of the reactions remind me of that wonderful scene in The Good Life where Margo Leadbetter simply can’t see the joke.

MamaCaz Wed 01-Apr-20 10:27:29

LuccaWed 01-Apr-20 09:35:39
Is this not indirectly a thread about a thread? The one I am thinking of started admittedly as lighthearted “aren’t men hopeless” discussion.
However at some point a poster was ridiculed before they even appeared on the thread and I definitely found it unpleasant, unlike some it did not make me “cry with laughter”

My thoughts exactly, Lucca.
Strange really, because when I started a thread yesterday about that unpleasantness, which wasn't limited to one single thread, my thread was deleted on the grounds of being a thread about a thread!

NanaandGrampy Wed 01-Apr-20 10:23:39

Isn’t being ‘amused at women arguing amongst themselves’ similar to ‘men can’t cook’ David?

I think it’s great you cook, Grampy cooks but amongst men of his generation he is more an exception than the rule . So when women of my generation bemoan the lack of cooking, I get it ! It’s not intended to belittle men who Do cook , it’s a general agreement that most don’t.

I’m probably explaining this badly but hope you see what I mean ?

SirChenjin Wed 01-Apr-20 10:23:25

Oh I see! No, it’s real - not an April Fool. GNHQ can set up new forum topics as needed/wanted (or at least they should, they certainly do on Mumsnet which is the sister site)

SirChenjin Wed 01-Apr-20 10:21:59

On Mumsnet - it’s one of the forums smile

Elegran Wed 01-Apr-20 10:14:58

There is a Scotsnet? (Checks date on calendar)

SirChenjin Wed 01-Apr-20 10:06:34

David - all it would mean is that there would be a forum topic called ‘Dadsnet’ or ‘Grandadsnet’ or ‘Mensnet’ or whatever you wanted to call it. For example, this thread is in the forum topic ‘Site stuff’, but it would give men an area where they (and the rest of GN obviously) could discuss issues they feel are more relevant to men or that need more of a male input (or perhaps they might just want to vent a bit!)? It’s just a suggestion but I know that the Scotsnet forum topic and others that were set up in response to user demand worked really well.

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 09:52:07

Quasi

Zut alors!!
Sacré bleu!

GrannyLaine Wed 01-Apr-20 09:49:58

Callistemon I think it could also be the experience of raising three daughters and all their terrible boyfriends along the way that gave my intuition (not to mention diplomacy skills), a real workout

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 09:49:41

Quasi French

shock

Callistemon Wed 01-Apr-20 09:48:56

I quite like having some input from a male point of view, but admit some makes me appreciate my own DH and male members of my family even more!

Davidhs Wed 01-Apr-20 09:46:04

“Why don’t you ask Gransnet to set up a dedicated thread called Dadsnet David? “

Because I’m way out of date on those topics, as a grandparent of 8 Gransnet is very relevant. I like the diverse political topics, am amused by women arguing amongst themselves and can happily ignore any misandry .