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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 07-Jul-20 11:27:47

Hello, GNHQ here, (waving a white flag).

We need your help. As many of you have probably noticed the conversations over the past few days have been increasingly tense. The questions posed have been so interesting and worthy of debate but so often the conversations have derailed and turned into personal attacks (the veiled ones can be particularly unkind). We hate deleting threads when people have taken time and effort to contribute and it must be equally wearing for you all to wade through mean-spirited posts. We'd really like to get back to conversations that include debate/disagreement but that also show a bit of respect and consideration for other posters even if you disagree with them.
Thank you for reading. smile
GNHQ

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:36:24

gg13 How do you know? Apart from today the only person I know about being banned is poor old jingles

Wonder how she is these days?

EllanVannin Wed 08-Jul-20 13:33:19

I had a spat with GG13 last night but didn't report it though the poster had hinted that I'd be reported because I told her/him to go ahead and report me.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:33:17

I don't think GNHQ have exactly covered themselves in glory over this episode.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:32:47

Whitewavemark2

gg13 I didn’t realise there was such a thing as a temporary ban!

It’s like school???

Yes at leat two posters have received a temporary ban I think one went on to be banned altogether either that or they decided they had had enough after being back for a while.

Lucca Wed 08-Jul-20 13:30:12

Nasty gram ? Yet another expression unknown to me today.
Why stop ? Say what you think!
If all the threads become bland and sweet I think I would lose interest very quickly.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:28:33

gg13 I didn’t realise there was such a thing as a temporary ban!

It’s like school???

Rosalyn69 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:27:08

My only comment is that I have noticed that I have to watch what I say or I get the nastygram. I’m now just trying to be bland which is a shame.

Lucca Wed 08-Jul-20 13:26:39

You, not your.

Lucca Wed 08-Jul-20 13:26:04

The problem with such speedy deletions is that unless you are poised on the forum non stop you don’t know what was said. What is “troll hunting” please?

A shame about ggumpteenth as she/he was a frequent feisty contributor,( and in the interests of fairness so are your Lemongrove. )

Iam64 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:25:41

Shame on me for being out walking the dog all morning. I missed all the deleted posts. I've skimmed through this thread and of course missed some things.

My experience of this forum is you have to work had to have something deleted and even harder to get banned.

janeainsworth Wed 08-Jul-20 13:24:58

The political threads of late have become fewer and fewer and they risk losing more than they gain

I wonder why!!

GrannyGravy13 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:20:32

Whitewavemark2

Oh dear I’ve just heard from ggumteenth and she has been banned..

What a shame!

Is it a temporary ban or permanent?

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:12:23

I’m sure HQ will defend their position, but we only have their word and I just think the whole thing has been most unfortunate.

FarNorth Wed 08-Jul-20 13:12:11

Another thing about MN is that you can change your username as often as you like.
So it will be easy to escape a squabble and continue happily posting without being recognised.
Or to change name for something controversial or personal, maybe, then change back.

trisher Wed 08-Jul-20 13:11:35

I am not "affected by Covid" nor am I hypocritical. I fully acknowledge that I can and do get into arguments on GN and don't back down. Nor do I try to pretend I don't, or that I am all sweetness and light. I'm a left -wing, bolshie woman and if I can't express my opinions on GN but have to turn in to a mealy mouthed syncophant to meet the demands of some sort of panel who are worried about advertising revenue then I urge them to be careful. The political threads of late have become fewer and fewer and they risk losing more than they gain.

FarNorth Wed 08-Jul-20 13:07:25

Fennel thanks. Yes I do that but I was just commenting about the quote function as lemongrove mentioned it.

lemongrove Wed 08-Jul-20 13:07:14

Thank you to those who have seen the personal attacks on me and who have replied kindly.
To those posters who are continuing to say that it wasn’t one sided ( have they even seen them?) then I say again Yes it was!
And if you doubt it then ask GNHQ.
If you didn’t read the posts then don’t pile in.
I have now asked HQ if they will please comment on this issue.

growstuff Wed 08-Jul-20 13:04:06

Not if somebody screenshot the posts. grin

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:03:14

To be honest I’ve never ever seen someone attacking another poster with it being entirely one sided.

It is a shame that the banned person can’t defend herself as we only have one side of the story now.

lemongrove Wed 08-Jul-20 13:02:00

Thank you Puzzler ?
Very kind of you.

growstuff Wed 08-Jul-20 13:01:13

lemongrove

*trisher*....not ‘disgusting’ at all!
Prolonged one sided personal attacks on a thread need calling out.Yes, it was entirely one sided on this thread.Do contact GNHQ if you doubt it.

It wasn't one sided at all as a whole.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Jul-20 13:00:55

Did you know she’d been banned lemon?

lemongrove Wed 08-Jul-20 12:59:40

trisher....not ‘disgusting’ at all!
Prolonged one sided personal attacks on a thread need calling out.Yes, it was entirely one sided on this thread.Do contact GNHQ if you doubt it.

MellowYellow Wed 08-Jul-20 12:59:09

What is this? A bullfight? gringrin

trisher Wed 08-Jul-20 12:52:46

That's disgusting. I wonder why? It is ridiculous that GNHQ fall for this business of something being entirely one sided when it obviously isn't. Could they ban a few of the people who I can only describe as hypocritical please.