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Please GNHQ ... would you consider letting *EllanVannin* come back to this site?

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Urmstongran Fri 03-Dec-21 15:34:03

This lady of 81y lives alone and GN was a great source of company for her. These long winter days are difficult for many to cope with at the best of times. I learned recently that she was given a lifetime ban. I feel very sad about this.

In the spirit of ? and goodwill to all, would you let her rejoin?

Nannagarra Sat 04-Dec-21 20:53:29

Raising a glass ? to EV’s return in time for the season of charity and good will to all. As Ellen doesn’t drink alcohol, she’ll no doubt enjoy the grape juice, Calistemon.
?for her reinstatement.

rafichagran Sat 04-Dec-21 20:53:28

eazybee

There are most definitely cliques, one of which was responsible for bans last year, when they ganged up on a poster who offended them.
Some rush into support certain posters who make an enormous fuss if anyone upsets them, others attempt to derail threads they disapprove of, but as to threats and intimidation, I haven't seen any evidence at all of that.

Agreed,

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:46:32

Moving swiftly on

I know EV would be up for sharing hot chocolate and crumpets.

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:44:35

Not sure, but Orlin says his are totally organic, he’s not sharing though!

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 20:42:44

Home-grown organic grape juice

I hope your nuts are organic, LauraNorderr!

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 20:36:55

I have a bowl of cashew nuts that would go well with the grape juice.
Holding out my empty glass Calistemon please.
Help yourself to nuts everyone.

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 20:31:27

Chewbacca

^I hope it’s going to be a happy Christmas decision^ I'll drink to that well, I would if I did! wine

I made a very tasty grape juice, Chewbacca
You're very welcome to a glass or two!

Looks just like red wine but tastes better

Cheers! ?

eazybee Sat 04-Dec-21 20:27:57

There are most definitely cliques, one of which was responsible for bans last year, when they ganged up on a poster who offended them.
Some rush into support certain posters who make an enormous fuss if anyone upsets them, others attempt to derail threads they disapprove of, but as to threats and intimidation, I haven't seen any evidence at all of that.

lemongrove Sat 04-Dec-21 20:12:19

??????☕️......cheers! Something for everybody here.
To keep on topic....here’s hoping that EV can return should she want to.

Jaxjacky Sat 04-Dec-21 19:46:51

Cheers Chewbacca ?

kittylester Sat 04-Dec-21 19:44:07

Me too chewy!

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 19:29:39

Chewbacca ☕️ cheers

merlotgran Sat 04-Dec-21 19:23:47

I'll have one for you, Chewbacca grin

Cheers! wine

Doodledog Sat 04-Dec-21 19:21:32

I posted on here yesterday and am now shocked to find it has gone off topic. Reflect on what Urms wants, so please, no more derailments. It's those, that could possibly cause HQ to stop the thread.
You really can't police threads and tell people what to post. In any case, the message of this one is loud and clear, and HQ have apparently told people that they are considering the matter. Whatever posters say now won't have any impact on that, unless, perhaps, someone makes a case for EV's ban to continue, which nobody has done.

Chewbacca Sat 04-Dec-21 19:20:45

I hope it’s going to be a happy Christmas decision I'll drink to that well, I would if I did! wine

LauraNorderr Sat 04-Dec-21 19:02:39

Thanks to you Urms, firstly for discovering EV’s plight and secondly for giving us all the opportunity to ask for her reinstatement.
I hope it’s going to be a happy Christmas decision.

Urmstongran Sat 04-Dec-21 18:57:25

Thanks to everyone for contributing to this thread. It has generated far more interest & wonderful support than I’d hoped for.

We’ve not had a decision yet from GNHQ. However, it is the weekend. And there is a lot to read on here!
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Fingers & toes crossed in the meantime.

muse Sat 04-Dec-21 18:49:31

I posted on here yesterday and am now shocked to find it has gone off topic. Reflect on what Urms wants, so please, no more derailments. It's those, that could possibly cause HQ to stop the thread.

Remember Urms words:
This lady of 81y lives alone and GN was a great source of company for her. These long winter days are difficult for many to cope with at the best of times. I learned recently that she was given a lifetime ban. I feel very sad about this.

In the spirit of ? and goodwill to all, HQ let her rejoin

Doodledog Sat 04-Dec-21 18:48:27

Ah, doxxing.

That should definitely be a banning offence with no reprieve. I think it is now a criminal offence, too.

Sorry, that is definitely moving away from the EV case; but I think that has been made clearly and equivocally, and I hope that GNHQ will act on our request to have her banning reconsidered.

Calistemon Sat 04-Dec-21 18:14:39

Doodledog

*As for unknown others intimidating and threatening on here - how intimidating can it be? We’re all anonymous and posts get reported very quickly for all sorts of spurious reasons. I’ve never seen anything I would consider even slightly threatening or intimidating but I’m not on here all the time and miss a lot of what goes on so who knows? Maybe that’s for the best.*

Agreed, tickingbird. 'I don't know how 'constant threats and intimidation' would work on here. Threats of what?

Very occasionally a poster has tracked another poster, found out who they are and 'stalked' them or caused trouble in RL.

rafichagran Sat 04-Dec-21 18:12:04

I do not feel intimidated and threatened on here, as stated, in the main we are anonymous, although some posters know each other.
I accept though that some people feel like that, as we dont know what happened fir them to feel like this.

Doodledog Sat 04-Dec-21 17:36:12

As for unknown others intimidating and threatening on here - how intimidating can it be? We’re all anonymous and posts get reported very quickly for all sorts of spurious reasons. I’ve never seen anything I would consider even slightly threatening or intimidating but I’m not on here all the time and miss a lot of what goes on so who knows? Maybe that’s for the best.

Agreed, tickingbird. 'I don't know how 'constant threats and intimidation' would work on here. Threats of what?

mumofmadboys Sat 04-Dec-21 17:35:44

Please GNHQ let EV back!

Doodledog Sat 04-Dec-21 17:32:52

FannyCornforth

Thread now rendered pointless

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Why is the thread now rendered pointless? The whole point of the thread is to make the case that all points of view should be able to be expressed, and that it is draconian to ban a poster for expressing her own.

Are you saying that because others have expressed points of view they have somehow invalidated that point?

tickingbird Sat 04-Dec-21 17:28:06

I can’t understand why some have to go into everything in such detail. If certain posters don’t like the idea of cancelling the ban on an 81 yr old lady that lives on her own and has stated to someone that knows her, how much she misses this contact, just scroll past. Why get so involved?

As for unknown others intimidating and threatening on here - how intimidating can it be? We’re all anonymous and posts get reported very quickly for all sorts of spurious reasons. I’ve never seen anything I would consider even slightly threatening or intimidating but I’m not on here all the time and miss a lot of what goes on so who knows? Maybe that’s for the best.

However. GNHQ, please consider reinstating EV, after all it is the season of goodwill.