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Has anyone on GN got the right to give private information about you?

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Fleurpepper Mon 12-Dec-22 17:02:28

Surely not. People on GN should have the right to anonimity, unless they choose to divulge any private information, be it about profession, locality, ethnicity, or whatever.

Secondly, should any information given in a PM be fair game to share to other members? Surely not.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 14:14:31

GagaJo

MerylStreep

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Ah, a moderator. Just in the nick of time!

Again, are you serious?

How is it ok for you to tell people what to post, to let the thread lie, and to threaten them with reminders of warnings from HQ, yet not ok for MerylStreep to comment on the incessant cries of victim from VS. What's the difference?

Blossoming Sun 18-Dec-22 14:22:18

an influx of silly comments

That would be me. A silly comment is a valid response too.

MerylStreep Sun 18-Dec-22 15:06:20

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

Joseanne Sun 18-Dec-22 15:11:21

In that case I'd rather like you as a moderator MerylStreep.

Callistemon21 Sun 18-Dec-22 15:18:04

MerylStreep

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

👏👏👏

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 15:23:13

MerylStreep

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

Closing down threads because you don’t like Some People speaking their minds is more akin to censorship than moderation.

Joseanne Sun 18-Dec-22 15:28:06

I don't think the thread needed to be closed down but a reminder to all [to be nice!] might have been good. 😉

BaBaBoom Sun 18-Dec-22 15:35:05

Doodledog @ 13.42 it was the 3rd option what done it.

VioletSky Sun 18-Dec-22 15:58:43

Me when the mud slinging starts 🙃

tickingbird Sun 18-Dec-22 18:19:33

That’s the second time that tree’s been posted on different threads - coincidence or what?🤔

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 18:26:00

Doodledog

GagaJo

MerylStreep

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Ah, a moderator. Just in the nick of time!

Again, are you serious?

How is it ok for you to tell people what to post, to let the thread lie, and to threaten them with reminders of warnings from HQ, yet not ok for MerylStreep to comment on the incessant cries of victim from VS. What's the difference?

I'm not threatening GNHQ. There isn't any need. They remember what's happened in the past and presumably have record of who is on a final warning etc.

Lucca Sun 18-Dec-22 18:30:58

Who or what is DARVO .?

Smileless2012 Sun 18-Dec-22 18:34:17

It stands for Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender Lucca.

Smileless2012 Sun 18-Dec-22 18:36:04

That picture reminds me of the tree herders from Lord of the Rings.

Lucca Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:12

Smileless2012

It stands for Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender Lucca.

Thank you. Every day a school day eh !

This is possibly the most ridiculous thread ever, I’d almost prefer the in depth discussion of dishcloths of blessed memory….

MerylStreep Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:16

SmileLess
It looks like it’s hanging on by it’s fingertips to me.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:58

I'm not threatening GNHQ. There isn't any need. They remember what's happened in the past and presumably have record of who is on a final warning etc.

Maybe, but you are still behaving like a self-appointed Head Girl, and there's no need if you think people will remember without you bringing it up. Obviously it's up to you what you post, but the double standards are outrageous.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 18:45:01

MerylStreep

SmileLess
It looks like it’s hanging on by it’s fingertips to me.

Sorry! I'm not helping, I know. I just find the hypocrisy a cross between amusing and amazing.

Farzanah Sun 18-Dec-22 18:46:48

Lucca I bought a hand knitted cotton one and it’s been brilliant. Never smells and comes out of wash as new.

VioletSky Sun 18-Dec-22 18:52:36

Are you guys ever going to stop?

Strength in numbers?

You are only making yourselves look bad

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 18:56:32

VioletSky

Are you guys ever going to stop?

Strength in numbers?

You are only making yourselves look bad

Says, VS, adding to the thread and dragging it out. This is exactly what I'm talking about - double standards. How does it make me look bad, and not you?

But yes, it's gone on long enough. I think the point has been well and truly made.

Lucca Sun 18-Dec-22 18:57:30

Er… xcuse me I only just came on to say how bonkers it is. I haven’t had more than three glasses of wine in 3 months but I’m a bit tempted…..

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 18:58:18

Lucca

Who or what is DARVO .?

They go on about it a lot on the trans thread. Which are largely ignored by others because it's same old, same old. Like here really.

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 18:58:58

VioletSky

Are you guys ever going to stop?

Strength in numbers?

You are only making yourselves look bad

Groundhog day, innit.

VioletSky Sun 18-Dec-22 18:59:05

So gangsta