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Let's talk dating apps with Lumen

(242 Posts)
LucyBGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 17-Oct-19 12:08:11

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In recent years, the number of people using dating apps to find that special someone has rapidly increased. Dating at any age can be difficult, but dating apps can make the process a little bit easier. Whether you’ve used a dating app before or not, Lumen wants to hear from you.

Here’s what Lumen has to say: “Dating apps are in full swing these days, with an estimated 59 million people using them worldwide, and that’s only as of 2017. Now, the number will only be higher and it's easy to see why. As our lives become busier and more hectic, it can be tricky to find time to set aside to go on dates, or to even find people to go on dates with. Dating apps come in to help us there, by allowing us to get chatting to people more easily. It’s not just a millennial’s game anymore.

More and more people over 50 are turning to dating apps to find someone to spend their later years with. You may have many friends and maybe even a family of your own, but that doesn’t mean you should be content with being single if you don’t want to be. If you’re ready to get back into dating, whether you’re in your fifties or beyond, then it might be time to try a dating app like Lumen.”

Have you got any experience of using dating apps? If so, were they good or bad experiences? Have you found good connections or engaged in quality conversations on dating apps?

Do you find dating apps easy or difficult to use? And, if you have never used a dating app, what do you think of them? Have you considered it but been put off?

Share your thoughts about dating apps on the thread below and you will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

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finleypop Tue 19-Nov-19 10:37:40

I think they are a great way to meet people as long as you don't set your heart on meeting Mr or Mrs right

lizd31 Tue 19-Nov-19 10:40:52

I've used them in the past & found they're full of time wasters & lots of fake profiles but quite a few of my friends have met people through them & are now happily married with children

littlemonkeyz Tue 19-Nov-19 10:45:12

I haven't personally used them but my friend / old boss did and he met his partner who he has been with for several years now. I don't think he would have had the opportunity to meet someone so suitable 'in real life' so it's been a great thing for him.

nikhop90 Tue 19-Nov-19 10:57:13

I think it's a good way to meet new people - I personally do not use them as I am happily married. But if it works for you go for it! Just be safe!

Funkyferret Tue 19-Nov-19 11:01:16

I've never used one. I don't think I would if I found myself single. It seems rather clinical and there's so much room for people bending the truth to outright deceit that they must be a minefield. That said, I know people for whom they've worked wonderfully so they can't be all bad!

mo3733 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:07:50

i think they are useful for people but they are fraught with people who are less than desirable. its hit or miss but i do know success stories so i think its worth a try

Yaracuy Tue 19-Nov-19 11:15:13

Use them in the past and not very amused by the results so...Pass...

fld14 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:20:41

Personally Im not a fan of dating apps. They scare me as you have no real idea of whom you are meeting.

Batfink78 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:22:52

I think the idea is fantastic for those who need it. I've not used one but many friends have and the key is finding the right one for you.

happysouls Tue 19-Nov-19 11:23:20

I'm in a long term relationship and hope to be for many years to come. But if I wasn't I don't think I'd use dating apps. Too much B/S. I don't know that I'd bother with relationships unless it just happened!

Torminator2709 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:24:13

In the past I used a few websites but didn’t have a lot of luck and was put off by inappropriate messages (and pictures). Ended up meeting DH on a blind date arranged by a mutual friend, although I have friends who’ve used online dating websites and apps with good results.

Michelleoliver Tue 19-Nov-19 11:46:43

I now feel old!! Dating apps!! Nope not for me. Fortunately I am happily married however if my situation was to change I would prefer the old fashioned methods of meeting someone through social events which make you go out and meet new people.

maryandbuzz1 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:56:13

I haven’t ever used them and if I was single I think I would be too scared. I am unsure as to how trustworthy the whole experience would be.

kama88 Tue 19-Nov-19 12:01:12

I met my partner through an online dating website so I am all for them :D I found success and I know many other married or long-term couples who have, too. As long as you are safe and careful, I think they're a wonderful way to meet people you otherwise probably never would.

Humph Tue 19-Nov-19 13:03:19

An app of last resort.

LOU1ASH1 Tue 19-Nov-19 13:57:19

I havent been brave enough although my friend has had great success through a dating site

Minnibix Tue 19-Nov-19 14:03:21

I think dating apps are brilliant so good for people who don't have time for the dating scene, however I think there needs to be stricter joining regulations. Although you see a lot of people saying they have met their all time love, I personally have not met a woman that has joined any of these sites and not been conned by a married man.

sophie56 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:06:30

I am happy being single so it is hard to judge. I don't like the idea but if I wanted a partner it is another tool I suppose

carolvs1 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:33:11

Dating apps, a great idea but an absolute minefield.

gd Tue 19-Nov-19 14:45:18

Meat market

M00se Tue 19-Nov-19 14:58:31

I've not used one, but some of my friends have. I think that they are quite effective, and probably a much easier way to meet people.

rachelmccraith Tue 19-Nov-19 15:00:30

I think they work for some people. It can be easier to talk to new people online rather than face to face

liquorice Tue 19-Nov-19 15:15:23

I personally have no need for one, but I do know people who have married after meeting on a dating app, however, it’s not something I would do, you never know what these people are really like and I worry after hearing a few horror stories

emmmaaa26 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:20:46

I like dating apps because you can get to know a lot of people who you wouldn't have met otherwise, however, I still think meeting someone face to face is better.

devito Tue 19-Nov-19 15:35:28

luckily i'm happily married although i do think dating apps are a good way for older people to meet up