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Dresses with sleeves

(79 Posts)
Album1 Fri 08-Apr-11 10:15:55

It's impossible to find decent summer dresses with short sleeves. You'd think someone would have realised by now that the tops of my arms are not something that should be allowed out in public.

lili Mon 09-May-11 17:54:16

M&S have great choice in jeans and for me no other has as many styles... Their indigo range is lovely and suits all ages (even if you don't like the jeans in the range the other 'bits' are stylish and good value.

Altho M&S annoy me too sometimes they are still a great store...

I just had a thought John Lewis or other department store will have staff to assist... describe your needs and see what they come up with...

Prim Mon 09-May-11 14:54:55

I have given up on dresses because they are never long enough in the body and I am only 5'4 tall, do not know how taller people manage fed up with belt loops in the wrong position, so given up would love to find a good retailer who sell nice dresses at a reasonable price. Any suggestions?

Mossybanks Mon 09-May-11 10:27:35

Take up swimming - helps the batwing arms!

lionlilac Mon 09-May-11 10:09:01

I have a few strappy dresses which I wear with an open chiffon/silk blouse.

Harebrain Sun 08-May-11 20:51:31

Try Kettlewell Colours website. I've said it before and I'm not an employee ( honest ) but the quality is superb and they do sleeves that come down to the elbow. Good for all age groups and perfect for looking smart under jackets. Took me ages to find them, and now go nowhere else!

helshea Sun 08-May-11 18:41:34

Just checked out the "toast" website.. but prices far too high for lickle old me!

Fleurette66 Sun 08-May-11 18:38:20

The fashion compagny "TOAST" have produced a lovely summer dress and some great tops with a great sleeve length! could it be that the owner are close to the fashion needs.
I agree about M&S, alternating between high fashion trends or frumpy!!

helshea Sun 08-May-11 17:20:49

Dorothy Perkins jeans are the best fit ever, I may be in my 50's but the jeans from DP are a brilliant fit even for someone like myself who is not short of "belly fat" or "the muffin". They are high enough waisted and they stretch.. so don't be afraid to be a yummy granny shopping where the yummy mummys shop. You know it makes sense!

Downswalker Sun 08-May-11 11:33:59

So thankful to see that other people have the same problems buying clothes that I have. I have never ever liked dresses without sleeves, even when I was young and skinny. I was too skinny then with matchstick arms !
I am 'petite' - not so slim now but get swamped in t-shirts and smock type tops, anything with a v-neck shows my bra unless it is a petite fitting, I find that Precis or CC petite range are the best for me but choice is so limited when you are older and want to look smart but not 'muttony'.
Marks and Spencer are really letting us down, Portfolio 'short' trousers were good as they actually had waists,now they have gone.
I used to enjoy shopping for clothes but now find it quite a trial particularly as I have more disposable income than I have ever had in my life - one of these babyboomers who is wrecking the country but don't start me on that !

Pollygarter Sun 08-May-11 10:31:02

As for jeans- would you believe Peacocks do brilliant jeans at a bargain price, including skinnies that aren't too skinny.

Muran60 Sun 08-May-11 10:22:19

.......I agree with much of the above, so I've decided to make my frocks, shift with cap sleeves...fab! And if not there are some really lovely cardigans out there now.....short, lightwieght, great colurs, good quality, Hobbs, Boden, Phase Eight. And on a bit of a rant ......why the hell do we call them that still, horrid name!

sillysillygrannie Sat 07-May-11 22:56:53

absolutely agree on all counts. My upper arms are too big for loads of nice things, and if you get something big enough for the arms, the rest of the top swamps you.
Also would love to hear from anyone about good fit jeans - not low rise, they give me 'builders bum', apart from being incredibly uncomfortable. And I'm only a 14 - 16; yep, M & S is sort of bland and the materials they use now feel cheap and flimsy. harrumph.

nannym Sat 07-May-11 18:41:56

T J Hughes sometimes have nice t shirts with decent length sleeves. I emphasise sometimes as it's very much hit and miss. You do have to do some searching but they can come up trumps. Bon Marche can also be quite good too, if you don't have an aversion to sequins!

Anne58 Sat 07-May-11 17:00:14

I'm still searching for quality t shirts with sleeves that come to (or just above) the elbow.

yumnan Sat 07-May-11 13:58:59

Per Una at M & S have some lovely linen dresses with sleeves this season. Just bought 2!

Georgette Sat 07-May-11 09:59:34

Why don,t you try wearing a sleeved Tshirt under your dress. it is a fashion look that works, it is called the layered look and hey! no need for a cardigan

habari Sat 07-May-11 07:29:22

Answer to jeans in the West Country is Mole Valley Farmers. For sleeveless dresses a collection of jackets, which also hide hips, or those strange light cardigans with pointy bits! Or even a nice long sleeved shirt. I am not fashionable as you can see.

suestagg Sat 07-May-11 00:18:03

Primark are especially guilty on this one!

Anne58 Fri 06-May-11 23:59:21

Hilda, you are so right! The portfolio range had exactly the t shirts that I was after, I saw them in my local M&S outlet shop. Unfortunately the colours I wanted, and the size I needed were not there.

I did do a website comment to M&S re the withdrawal of the portfoliio range, but as yet no response.

Anne58 Fri 06-May-11 23:53:45

I have been searching for ages for reasonably priced and reasonable quality t shirts to wear under suits for business meetings. The other criteria is a sleeve that comes either to, or just above the elbow. Not much luck so far!

tournesol Fri 06-May-11 22:43:22

Well, this is the place to get one going!

grandmabet Fri 06-May-11 20:37:04

Oh, I so agree. Have been searching the catalogues and shops for ages, trying to buy a dress that's a) not above the knees and b) has more than cap sleeves. Why can't they make dresses for anyone over 50 - it's a nonsense, when we are such a large part of the population and with some so called spending power? It's infuriating. Do you think we could get up a petition so that the manufacturers take note of us?

tournesol Fri 06-May-11 17:46:44

Of course manufacturers are saving lots of material (money) by making garments with skimpy sleeves.......

HildaW Fri 06-May-11 16:32:00

Was just getting on famously with M&S's Portfolio range when they went and cancelled it!!! Honestly they are daft.

Poppy Fri 06-May-11 15:56:38

I agree there is limited choice but at the end of the day why not just face the world as you are.Maybe then it will just be accepted and no one will be bothered. After all our daughters and daughters in law are likely to have the same problem in years to come.