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JessM Wed 08-Aug-12 21:07:22

Do they make nursing bras in an A cup grin - worth a look.

glammanana Wed 08-Aug-12 20:35:37

Jess I don't know if you have considered this but DDs friend had partial reconstruction and up until then she used nursing bra's and padded the side with double nursing pads and she was more than happy with the result and they where pretty aswell.

Grannylin Wed 08-Aug-12 19:51:30

Until I had my first baby and breastfed was always 34A and used cotton wool balls to fill in the gaps! For the first time in my life I am 36 B and so my bras are redundant if you want to recycle some Jess!Have you tried LaSenza- or,excuse the pun, have they gone bustgrin

Grannyknot Wed 08-Aug-12 19:39:36

These bras may not have underwiring Jess but they do provide shape, especially with the inserts in, they have a kind of built in cup.

JessM Wed 08-Aug-12 19:36:17

Well Phoenix that is the kind of thing we are going to get an enormous new Primark soon so sounds like I will be Ok when that happens. Not built yet though. smile
I have got a cotton jacket I bought in Primark about a decade ago. One of those useful items for the uk summer.

Anne58 Wed 08-Aug-12 19:24:11

Hello JessM, just a thought but Primark do bras with "airpocket" inserts. I wear them to make up for my lack of bosoms, the way they are designed would make it easy to remove the airbag thingy from one side. Also being Primark they are very cheap!

johanna Wed 08-Aug-12 18:59:34

jess, really feel for you in your quest for a decent fitting bra.
Have you considered Playtex? Just as a guess.
The Americans are years ahead of us in the world of Bra's, they really seem to have a bra for every size, shape etc. etc.
The big American department stores all sell on line as well.
Or maybe your U.S connections could buy them for you?

JessM Wed 08-Aug-12 18:49:19

Hmm - its an idea Grannyknot thank you. I fear though that I would look completely flat chested in something without a bit of padding and under wiring.
But your suggestion might work for the days when i dont mind that.

Grannyknot Wed 08-Aug-12 18:43:20

Should have added, the slits are small enough so that you have to roll the insert to get it in, and once in, there's nowhere for them to escape. smile

Grannyknot Wed 08-Aug-12 18:21:12

A friend of mine gave me the tip about pullover bras that you can buy on QVC that adjust to your size. They have a slit with inserts that you can put in or not. They're fab! I wear nothing else on weekends, gives me a break from the underwire horrors. (hint = genie).

Anagram Wed 08-Aug-12 17:36:52

There are several websites offering bras for women who've had a partial mastectomy, if you Google it.

JessM Wed 08-Aug-12 17:34:05

Well quite. I am not the kind of person who is terribly good at controlling such things.

Ariadne Wed 08-Aug-12 17:22:53

Such a pain, isn't it? I am ostensibly a 36DD but obviously, since my partial mastectomy, only on one side; like you Jess I have problems. I do have a small "chicken fillet" which I wear with skimpy bras, but it doesn't stay in one place (the fillet) and is likely to emerge out of the top of most bras. Usually when I'm in a condition not to notice immediately!

JessM Wed 08-Aug-12 17:13:02

Just dashed myself on the rocks of Debenhams and M and S bra depts.
Here's the issue:
A 36 A fitting needed (not that common)
A partial mastectomy a long time ago means one side about 2/3 of the other.
The only kind of bras that even out the lopsided look are the ones with little pockets inside so that I can whip out the insert on one side and put it in the other side. Wonderbra used to be a reliable source, but technology has moved on... I have a load of BHS bras that just fit but are not really comfortable, and are wearing out and getting less and less comfortable.
Debenhams have a reasonable bra dept. But only one line that suited my needs (Level 2 enhancement apparently !!). Once i had got over the "I don't actually want a mastectomy bra" hurdle. But they didn't fit. Forgot to say, they are wide apart as well.
M and S truly abysmal. Thousands of bras. Eventually located a member of staff (very young) who again suggested a mastectomy bra. Don't want a mastectomy bra thank you.
Seems bras with removable inserts are out of favour and M and S do not a one.
I'm wearing a comfortable 11 year old bra i bought in the States. Wish I had bought a carrier bag full at the time.
Does nobody cater for those with partial mastectomies?
Any ideas GNers?