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top sheet under duvet cover or not?

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willsandco Mon 13-Oct-14 18:53:00

I have got recently remarried and this is the only thing (so far) that we disagree about! DH puts a bottom sheet on the bed, then a top sheet and then the duvet with a cover on. Nobody in my family has a top sheet - we just put the cover on the duvet and lay it over the bottom sheet. What do you all do?

posie Mon 13-Oct-14 21:44:17

No top sheet. However i do have a quilted throw on top of duvet to cope with Scotland's winter.

Icyalittle Mon 13-Oct-14 21:59:25

I like a top sheet as well. I get hot and throw off the duvet, but need something. Rarely if ever go up above a 9 tog duvet either, and never have heating on in the bedroom. Window open all year unless it is actually blowing in from the North. Sorry, that all sounds a bit hardy, and I don't think I am, it's just I like to sleep in a cool room. (This is North Wilts, btw). Come to think of it, it is also that I get a migraine if I get too hot at night.

Anne58 Mon 13-Oct-14 22:06:40

Re the point about duvets not being big enough, we have a standard double bed, but a king size duvet.

(it still ends up all over Mr P's side though confused )

Lona Mon 13-Oct-14 22:13:10

No top sheet for me although my parents used to have one.
As for the duvets not being large enough, I used to put a double duvet in a king sized cover, which then hung down further at the sides.

Ana Mon 13-Oct-14 22:18:25

Single duvets are tiny - only suitable for a small child's bed, really.

We've always gone for a double for a single bed and king-sized for a double bed.

janerowena Mon 13-Oct-14 22:22:31

I think a top sheet would get all screwed up and wrinkly. Or are we just restless sleepers? We went somewhere where there was one, but I can't remember where. We got very confused as to why it was there and what we were meant to do with it. It ended up being ripped off halfway through the night because it got wrapped around DBH's legs, so it certainly didn't save any washing.

I have read of people buying tog 4s and similar, and sewing the corners into the duvet. Because it is so light they can throw the whole thing into the machine every week. I'm tempted, because we use one all year and then have a huge quilted cotton cover over that during the winter.

Ana Mon 13-Oct-14 22:25:04

Washing a duvet every week??? shock

janerowena Mon 13-Oct-14 22:27:54

They are only thin, tog4s. They dry very quickly. i wouldn't do it on any other. And if you have dodgy hips, it's really hard to keep changing the quilt cover.

Charleygirl Mon 13-Oct-14 23:02:39

No sheet here either except like rosequartz after major surgery I thought that it would be easier to change the sheet weekly and the duvet cover less often but I did not find the sheet comfortable so I had to find other means of changing the duvet cover. Like phoenix I also have a king size quilt so it is so much more difficult to change the cover.

Grannyknot Mon 13-Oct-14 23:19:52

I am so inept at changing the duvet covet, that my husband can't stand to watch and takes over. He uses bags' method. So, it works for me! grin

Grannyknot Mon 13-Oct-14 23:20:11

Cover!

Nelliemoser Mon 13-Oct-14 23:29:10

Yes always! A sheet tucks in around your toes and you do not have to change the duvet cover so often, which is always a struggle.

Nelliemoser Mon 13-Oct-14 23:35:48

Icyalittle Given your post of 21:59 hrs 13/10/14 about being hot in bed, I think you should change your user name forthwith.

You have misrepresented yourself. wink

merlotgran Mon 13-Oct-14 23:48:11

Pre duvet days I absolutely hated sheets and blankets. Life's too short.

Duvet covers are easy to put on if you use clothes pegs to anchor the top corners while you feed the rest of it in.

My Swiss SIL uses bags' method but without the bannister.

Top sheet? You must be joking.

ginggran Mon 13-Oct-14 23:54:09

Grannyknot...Thou shalt not covet thou husband's duvet smile

grannyactivist Tue 14-Oct-14 00:22:26

Never use a top sheet.
I'm just wondering when duvets became the norm here in the UK. When I bought mine in early 1970 I think they had only just become available to buy here. Did anyone buy one earlier?

Flowerofthewest Tue 14-Oct-14 00:41:38

Never. Just Duvet and cover

kittylester Tue 14-Oct-14 06:54:27

No top sheet here either. I use bags inside out method for changing but lay the duvet flat on the bed.

Ga, we bought duvets in 1972 and they cost a fortune! We had just moved house and buying new curtains in a really nice shop in Shrewsbury when we saw them. We were the first of our friends to have them! My mum bought us a big ornage blanket to go with it ' in case we were cold' grin

Grannyknot Tue 14-Oct-14 07:13:00

ging smile

I think I can claim to have had the first duvet ever: my mother, inventive as already, sewed buttons on to both ends of our blankets, and made buttonholes in our top sheets, top and bottom. These were then buttoned together, so the three of us could make our beds with relative ease as children. She also fashioned fitted sheets on the mattresses with folds and safety pins!

My gran was scandalised, I was always slightly embarrassed when friends came for sleepovers.

Years later I only realised how brilliant she was.

Grannyknot Tue 14-Oct-14 07:13:52

That should be "inventive as ever".

Purpledaffodil Tue 14-Oct-14 08:24:56

Typically I just read bags method, having changed the duvet cover last night. Using the banister is a new idea to me and I shall try it next time. Thanks thatbags.
Only caveat is not ironing it first! Mine are white cotton and would look like dish rags if not ironed. Must be the unreconstructed housewife lurking very deeply within me grin

ffinnochio Tue 14-Oct-14 08:33:34

No top sheet - nothing more irritating.
Always do the inside-out method but not with banisters included in the process. Will try new system next time smile

Anyone chuck duvets out the window to air (not completely chuck, obviously) on good weather days? Mine's out now - a fresh, sunny autumn morning.

elena Tue 14-Oct-14 08:47:38

thatbags - that's a great idea about the bannister!

I don't use top sheets with duvets. I never iron bedding, though I might do the odd pillow case if it looks very creased. I think the bedding we use is all treated cotton or else part man-made fibre so it looks 'good enough' with a shake and a manual smoothing smile

sunseeker Tue 14-Oct-14 08:48:50

I always use a top sheet. Suffer badly with night sweats so with a top sheet I can throw the duvet off but still have some covering. Also nothing beats the feeling of fresh cotton sheets! I also change the duvet cover every week when I change the sheets

Teetime Tue 14-Oct-14 08:52:32

N top sheet for us or anything else that's fiddly DH gets tangled up in things. We couldn't possibly have a four poster with hangings DH would be garotting himself by the end of the night. I have to whip the cushions of the bed before he comes up as in his view these are all unnecessary objects which will entrap him.smile