Frizz ease is great if you have thick frizzy hair, but avoid it completely if your hair is fine as all it will do is make it look flat, and as I found, greasy. YUK !!
Mousse is excellent, but again be careful as some of them can leave your hair looking a bit greasy if your hair is fine. I use the same one as my hairdresser uses on me.
Lastly, I swear by Elnett Very Volume hairspray to finish. It really does control fine hair, and the volume stays all day.
This hot weather however has played absolute havoc with my hair, and I have struggled to do anything with it. Now that it has cooled back down,my hair is behaving itself once more. It really is about finding what suits your hair NanKate.
One more thing that I read recently re: Shampoo + conditioner.
Matching them is not always what is best for your hair, so use what you feel works for your hair.
Hope that this helps.