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Outfit for informal wedding

(67 Posts)
NotSpaghetti Tue 28-Jan-20 15:50:28

I expect the walk to the restaurant is not where chatter and photos will happen. Leave the coat till last. If it's very close I'd use one I had. Google the distance!

GillT57 Tue 28-Jan-20 15:33:02

What about black trousers, a colourful top and a nice cheery red wool three quarter length coat/short jacket? Bright and warm for a cold time of year and you could always wear black ankle boots and warm socks too!

Buffybee Tue 28-Jan-20 15:27:16

If you live in trousers varian, would you get much wear from a dress?
What about smart black trousers and a colourful blouse or longer line top?
Other guests will mainly see only your top half at the meal and you will have a coat over the top in the church.

Nico97 Tue 28-Jan-20 15:10:37

Try browsing some online catalogues Varian.

Kaleidoscope
JDWilliams
Roman Original

These all show outfits which may help -or not. Good luck !

varian Tue 28-Jan-20 14:50:37

Thank you for all your suggestions.

I will need to buy a coat or long jacket as I can't wear my old wax jacket, office jacket, everyday padded anorak or the dreary old winter coat I wear for funerals. I will also need a dress as I normally live in trousers and none of my trousers are smart enough.

I normally wear a lot of black but my OH wants me to get something more colourful. I prefer dark colours, especially green, purple and blue (but not navy)

In general I like plain rather than fancy clothes but as I am in my seventies and a tad overweight, there is always the danger that I will look frumpy or lumpy or both. I feel I need a bit of understated style but I don't know where to start.

Buffybee Tue 28-Jan-20 14:33:45

Either, as Maw suggested: smart trousers, jacket and knee length coat or
long sleeve dress, warm tights, ankle or knee length boots and warm coat.
Maybe a faux fur jacket? If you can still find one this late in the season.

eazybee Tue 28-Jan-20 14:26:41

Can you find out what are the bride and groom wearing, and how warm the restaurant will be?

MerylStreep Tue 28-Jan-20 14:20:34

A cardigan. A waterproof coat. Oh good lord, no,no,no ??

MawB Tue 28-Jan-20 14:12:34

Each to their own, but a long waterproof coat is what I wear for dog walking!
I know OP said “informal” but ........

MawB Tue 28-Jan-20 14:11:27

Ponchos do not get blown off - I regularly wear them, and a wrap, as an extra layer, can always be fixed with a brooch or kilt pin.

Gaunt47 Tue 28-Jan-20 14:08:43

Wraps and ponchos get blown off in February - a very very warm waterproof long coat would be my choice smile

MawB Tue 28-Jan-20 13:54:44

Smart trousers and jacket/knee length coat, smart ankle boots and a wrap or poncho for warmth outside.

Curlywhirly Tue 28-Jan-20 13:50:54

Trouser suit?

Marydoll Tue 28-Jan-20 13:48:15

What about a wrap or poncho, instead of a cardigan?

Iwastoldtheredbecake Tue 28-Jan-20 13:33:56

I would opt for a warm long sleeved dress, opaque tights and comfy low heeled shoes.
Have fun.

timetogo2016 Tue 28-Jan-20 13:26:10

A nice/smart pair of trousers and a warm jumper/cardigan.
Especially as it`s going to be cold.

varian Tue 28-Jan-20 13:21:56

Can anyone advise what I should wear to an informal family wedding in Febtuary? The ceremomy will be in a city centre Registry office then we will walk to a nearby restauranr.