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I want to be lifted and separated!

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starshine Tue 25-Jan-22 19:50:08

There are several things I want to tackle in 2022, the first being to find myself some decent bras. I need some lift and separation but am not sure which style to go for.
I have looked for inspiration elsewhere online but wondered whether anyone here might have any recommendations?
I'm leaning towards the balconette style (not the teeny ones!) but, being a 40B, I'm concerned there might be overspill which is most certainly not the look I'm going for smile
I prefer to buy online but have bought from M&S in the past. I know I could just go in and try lots on but I have a lot of pain in my arms and shoulders so I would rather take my time at home.

Jane71 Tue 25-Jan-22 20:17:34

Visit Bravissimo for some advice.

MerylStreep Tue 25-Jan-22 20:23:20

I think the first thing you have to do is get yourself measured properly and take advice from the ‘fitter’

Kamiso Tue 25-Jan-22 20:29:37

www.missmary.co.uk/gb/

Highly recommended with lots of information on fitting etc.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 25-Jan-22 20:31:21

Rigby & Peller if your budget allows, if your budget is smaller Bravissimo.

Blossoming Tue 25-Jan-22 20:33:40

Having a narrow back and a pair of FFs I prefer side support bras. Some lovely ones on Bravissimo and Belle Lingerie web sites.

NotAGran55 Tue 25-Jan-22 20:39:04

I second GG13’s advice . I have been to both and was transformed.

Shinamae Tue 25-Jan-22 20:41:07

Being particularly flat chested I have no need of such an item..?

Riverwalk Tue 25-Jan-22 20:50:55

Are you sure you're 40B?

A friend thought she was for years and was never happy with her bras - after a trip to Rigby & Peller it turned out she was something like a 36D.

SueDonim Tue 25-Jan-22 22:25:40

Bravissimo are your friends! They’ll help out via the phone regarding fitting.

Kate1949 Tue 25-Jan-22 22:37:10

Another vote for Bravissimo here. I was wearing a 36C and they measured me as a 32F. Very comfortable bras.

Nannytopsy Tue 25-Jan-22 23:34:44

Elomi are from the same people as R&P and Fantasie. Underwires are the way to go.

starshine Wed 26-Jan-22 05:46:57

Good morning. Thank you all for your comments!
I am going to check out Bravissimo. I have never been measured properly in the last 15 years or so. I just go with what fits and that's been ok up to now but I really do want better support under the new clothes I've bought.
I tend to wear non- wired styles as they're very comfortable but I'm guessing underwired would give more support.
My daughter has offered to take me to wherever I choose and I think Bravissimo will be a good place to start. I'll be interested to find out if I am in the correct size as I'm beginning to doubt it now!
I was going to order several styles from online places but I think, overrall, it will be quicker, and obviously more accurate, to visit a specialist store.

starshine Wed 26-Jan-22 05:52:22

Nannytopsy, I see that Elomi bras have excellent reviews.

shysal Wed 26-Jan-22 09:20:30

Another fan of Miss Mary of Sweden here. I prefer underwired which give good separation as well as lift, and strong straps.

starshine Wed 26-Jan-22 09:31:59

Yes, I have just had a look at the link that Kamiso provided and there's plenty of choice there. Thank you both. I've also emailed a (fairly) local independent seller who has been around for many years, though I didn't know about her, and she stocks many brands apparently. I'll catch up with my daughter today with regards to an outing, perhaps to Harrogate which isn't too far away.

LadyGracie Wed 26-Jan-22 09:53:46

Unfortunately I have nothing to lift and separate.

PinkCosmos Wed 26-Jan-22 10:03:53

I would be interested to know how you get on starshine. I am also a 40B. Some of the bras for 'bigger ladies' don't offer a 40B. I have a broad back and this is my size.

I have ordered so many bras online and sent them back. I am currently wearing a Triumph underwired bra which is comfy but has quite sheer cups so is only OK under thicker clothes - unless you like the nipple effect grin - so is going to be no good in summer.

I think underwired is the way to go. I have always worn underwired bras.

I saw an online company called No1Bra which looked quite good. I haven't ordered from them. They claim to have no dig wires, though this has never been a problem for me.

no1bra.com/