The only style of dress that I have in common with my Mum is trousers, she wore them a lot (for warmth) and so do I (for comfort, and I'm lazy). But she never wore jeans - hated them, said they were common.
My Mum was the original 'beige woman,' always wearing drab, boring shades of brown and small discreet patterns. She liked her clothes to be neat and fitted and she always wanted to be inconspicuous and blend into the background, so she never wore bright colours or bold patterns, she thought they were tarty.
She never wore sleeveless tops or v-necks no matter how warm it was, and was horrified when I wore halter necks, mini skirts, hot pants and kaftans!
Mum always wore stockings, never tights.
I don't wear either.
Mum always wore a tight girdle and vest.
I definitely do not.
Mum never went to the hairdressers.
I go every 6 weeks.
Mum always wore a hat to go out.
I don't wear hats.
Mum wore makeup every day, powder, blusher and lipstick, but never eye makeup.
I don't wear any makeup.
Mum always wore stiletto heels, even at 85. I've never worn them - I saw what they did to her feet! She would buy shoes a size too small, if they didn't have her size, and 'break them in'. I only buy shoes that fit me properly and are comfortable. I once took her to be measured for handmade shoes. We collected them and she said they were very comfortable. But when she discovered the price she took them off and never wore them again - she didn't want to spoil them!
She always disapproved of the way I dressed and probably still would if she were around.