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NanKate Thu 19-May-22 16:11:08

Have any of you stopped washing your hair with products and just rinse your hair in warm water ? I’m told this can be good for your hair.

OakDryad Sun 22-May-22 11:36:59

There is a transition period icanhandthenback not dissimilar say to when skin condition improves for people switching from a poor, greasy diet to a healthy one. Except with hair it takes longer. Easier if hair is short.

BlueBelle Sun 22-May-22 11:41:55

No I like my hair to smell nice so every day in the shower it gets a wash

Dynawritecat Sun 22-May-22 11:43:14

I have very curly hair and have to use products to stop it looking like candyfloss or a brillo pad. They don't wash out with just warm water. I have tried different regimes but have have returned to a gentle 'natural' shampoo. I guess it really depends on your hair type.

Paperbackwriter Sun 22-May-22 11:50:24

It's a total myth that not washing your hair is fine and that it somehow cleans itself. It simply doesn't. Why NOT wash it properly? Doesn't it feel fresh and clean? You wash your body with soap (or whatever unguents of choice) so why not your hair?

Aepgirl Sun 22-May-22 11:50:31

It might be good for your hair but not so good for your social life - just watch people backing away from the smell of dirty hair.

NotSpaghetti Sun 22-May-22 12:02:46

Some of us have experienced working/living with people who don't use products on their hair and do not smell - apegirl, GSM and others who have no experience of this, I don't understand why you are quite so scathing about it.
Nobody is expecting anyone to do it if they don't want to. It seems to me ti just be another personal choice.
I worked with my colleague for a year or more before we even discussed it. I don't suppose we would have ever learned about it but a new person joined the team and commented on her "always luscious locks" and asked what she used to keep her hair so lovely...

Mollygo Sun 22-May-22 12:23:41

It’s another personal choice thing. Anyone on here remember ‘rinse your hair with beer’? I use a shampoo with none of the nasties on here. When I retire I guess I could try the no shampoo method-no worry about the settling in period then.
Incidentally in Portugal, Parabéns means congratulations.

grandtanteJE65 Sun 22-May-22 12:36:15

Yes, I have periodically only washed my hair in lukewarm water. Usually whilst in trekking holidays.

Neither my hair nor my scalp felt dirty, or smelled different, apart from not smelling of shampoo.

I finish up going back to a mild shampoo every time, because I don't care for the feel of my scalp after a month or so without using shampoo. However, I never wash my hair more often than once every week., as I have always been told that daily shampooing is bad for you, your hair and the enviroment.

Merryweather Sun 22-May-22 12:47:55

I don’t use soap on my skin- except hands after using the toilet and before food prep/ after gardening. A good rub down all over is all I need. My children too. If they have bern playing football and have ground in mud then a a little soap is used. As for hair - I’m curly so I wash one a week then daily in the shower rinse and condition. The children I do shampoo their hair every other day or after swimming.

Merryweather Sun 22-May-22 12:48:37

Forgot to say we all have lovely odour free skin and hair.

Shandy57 Sun 22-May-22 12:55:42

This reminds me of a BTCV holiday my husband went on, dry stone walling in Chester. One of the volunteers never washed her hair at all, and often mentioned it, saying that after several months it was 'self cleaning'.

We all took turns to cook the big meal, and just as we were about to tuck into the macaroni cheese she'd made, she shouted 'bon appetit everyone, I hope there isn't a hair in it'. Everyone but everyone on the table laughed in horror!

Gwenisgreat1 Sun 22-May-22 13:13:57

I buy shampoo in a soap bar. Very little is needed for the desired effect, and I love it! Unfortunately couldn't get conditioner in a soap bar - it's in a plastic bottle.

Daisydaisydaisy Sun 22-May-22 13:20:18

I've not done that but I do generally only wash My hair once a week and use Dry shampoo in between ...I try to preserve My hair colour ?

OakDryad Sun 22-May-22 13:23:41

Neither do I NotSpaghetti and resent the implication that I smell because I only wash my hair with warm water. It doesn't matter how much I explain the chemistry.

Mollygo Does it? smile Parabens in English are chemicals which can disrupt hormones, harm fertility and reproductive organs, affect birth outcomes, and increase the risk of cancer.

Seriously, and I mean this, there was a recent discussion about those who suffer debilitating menopauses and those who don't. There doesn't seem any pattern to it and I said I'd like to see longitudinal studies carried to see what other factors are at play.

We live in a unprecedented chemical world using far more than our mothers or grandmothers did. Why do so many women struggle with fertility? Why are so many children born with disabilities? Why is there so much cancer?

I have lost so many female friends to cancer in their 40s and 50s? Was it just bad luck - without exception all had parents who lived into their 80s and 90s - or could it be to do with all the chemical products we are persuaded to use by the advertising industry? The media constantly bombards us with adverts for hair products.

My dearest friend who died in her 50s asked her oncologist: Why me? His reply? That babyboomers have had a lifetime of exposure to chemicals, both wittingly and unwittingly. He called it "toxic insult". There is only so much I can control but I do what I can to reduce the toxic insult to my own body.

HannahLoisLuke Sun 22-May-22 13:59:04

Gwenisgreat1

I buy shampoo in a soap bar. Very little is needed for the desired effect, and I love it! Unfortunately couldn't get conditioner in a soap bar - it's in a plastic bottle.

I use shampoo and conditioner bars. KinKind do both in different formulations for different hair types. They’re every bit as effective as liquid products and better for the environment. A bit more expensive than bottled but they last a lot longer.

4allweknow Sun 22-May-22 14:10:22

In the 90s a young local hairdresser undertook a trial of not washing her hair. It wasn't trrribly long but it was quite thick. Once her hair got greasy she wore it under a turban at work. At six weeks she unveiled her beautiful soft shiny hair, in terrific condition. Of course all the young folk wanted to try the same. One point I recall is that she started with clean shampooed hair with no hairspray or lotions of any kind on it. Didn't fancy it myself, couldn't go to work in a turban!

sussexoldbag Sun 22-May-22 14:20:48

No, I don't want to be remembered by my grandchildren as the smelly Granny.

Bijou Sun 22-May-22 14:36:17

My hair is still quite thick and grows very quickly needing to be trimmed every two weeks. Since I cannot be able to shower by myself, my help washes my hair with an olive oil no chemical shampoo and shower with a mild soap once a week. Other days a strip wash with mild soap. I use Vitapoint leave in conditioner when hair is dry.
I don’t think it is necessary to shower every day anyway unless you have a dirty job or sweat a lot. I always wash my bottom after going to the toilet as I don’t think wiping with paper is effective.

Farzanah Sun 22-May-22 15:37:09

My elderly mother always had her hair washed, set, permed and coloured regularly by home hairdresser. Since rapid decline 4 months ago she has been bed bound at home on end of life care. She is a death’s door, and looks it but her hair ironically looks really healthy and lovely for not being washed, and without chemicals and detergents (shampoo) for months, despite her condition, and doesn’t smell at all!

TheMaggiejane1 Sun 22-May-22 16:29:30

I’m reminded of a lovely lady I used to work with who loved to tell everyone that she was very lucky as the never perspired. ‘I have a shower every day but I never need to use deodorant’ she’d tell us . She was a very nice person but wow did she smell on hot days!

Mollygo Sun 22-May-22 16:39:58

I tried washing my dog today -she followed me into the shower, and she was a bit smelly. I usually use a dog shampoo bar, but today I just used water. I’ll see what she smell like later.

jerseygirl Sun 22-May-22 16:48:43

I wash my hair every day and always have done. I like it to smell fresh every day. If i dont for whatever reason it smells stale. Yuk !!!

lizzypopbottle Sun 22-May-22 16:57:52

I think we are conditioned, (no pun intended) by the toiletries manufacturers, to expect to smell, look bad and give offence if we don't use detergents, anti-perspirants and other chemicals that are often bad for our skin and hair, and definitely bad for the environment. We are obsessed by the risk of smelling bad so we keep lathering, hair and body, just in case. All those chemicals pollute our water courses.

Nannashirlz Sun 22-May-22 18:24:31

A hair expert said you don’t have to wash all your hair just your roots and wet rest of your hair but I can’t see me doing that. Can’t see how it would make my hair clean so I like a good lather on my hair to feel it’s clean but I only wash once a week and use dry during week but weekend I have pretreatment shampoo and conditioner thanks to Philip Kingsley lol hair looks good if I say so myself.

knspol Sun 22-May-22 18:59:11

I've shampooed my hair daily for the last many years but recently started only using shampoo every other day and in between just rinsing it in the shower and then adding a little conditioner. Now using shampoo every third day, read that this is better for hair and it does make my hair look thicker so will stick with it.