Mutton As Lamb

No short skirts on low tops for me anymore. I'm only 5ft 2 so was never a fan of short skirts unless I wore 4 inch stilettos to make my short legs look longer and stilettos are definitely out as I'm like Bambi in them now. I love longer dresses, jeggings with long tops or jumpers and I've lots of coloured jeans or Chino type trousers.

Basically I've dressed the same all my life, never worn make up or high heels.

When I was young in the 70's it was the alternative scene hippy dresses skirts, jeans embroidered tops, t shirts and jumpers. Parties had reggae and flares not bling and boobs.

I had to dress more formally for work but never heels or anything uncomfortable, smart trousers, jersey tops, a midi dress or skirt.

I'm 5'5, slim, T shirt shape so loose tops hang well. Of course there has been a downward movement round my bum and hips so I guess whats happened is (thinking of wardrobe) I wear longer tops and jumpers that cover bum.

Long legs so I wear mostly trainers or boots in winter. I like bold clear colour blocks and simple silver necklaces.

The biggest change, since I don't wear make up, its that I take a great deal more care over my skin and hair.

And any bloke however adonis like who made that kind of carrion remark about women - end of any friendship, forget it! its just another "women as objects" remark.

Women should wear what they want, although unless you want to be stared at uncomfortably I think its unwise to show too much wrinkly flesh in a sexualised way. People are not kind, and why not ease up and cover up that bit more, but prettily.

I am 5 feet tall and 65. I go to the petite section of shop's such as Wallis or Next online mostly in the sale. House of Fraser and Debenham's have clothing from all the high st stores as well.

I don't wear short skirts but I don't see why age should be a factor. The half-starved children who work as models look awful in short skirts with their stick like legs poking out and miserable faces.

I would never pay money for ripped jeans. Jeans last me for years but if mine wear out at the knee, I cut them off at the knee to wear in the garden or throw them out.

I don't tend to wear dresses, long or short, and never have. I like them but I just don't have the lifestyle for them. I worked as an analytical chemist and we all wore clothes we didn't mind getting the occasional mark or hole in from chemicals. Then, as a primary teacher, grandmother of three and dog owner, I spend too much time on the floor to be wearing dresses.

Lately, I wear wide leg pants and fitted tee shirts with a little jacket and canvas lace-ups (£9 from Sainsbury's) but my feet are starting to feel the cold...

The nearest I'll get to a skirt is a pair of culottes that I've almost finished making and am rather proud of. They come to just below my knee. They are black/white herring bone wool. I've lined them to avoid itching and they'll be very warm. I might actually wear them! I have a nice pair of black suede boots I bought in Austria about twenty five years ago. They'll go well.

There's only me to please these days but, being tall and reasonably slim, I still wear what I please and feel comfortable in. Taking comfort from the 'eyesore' outfits worn by some of the younger generation!!

I wouldn’t wear the leather trousers but then, I’ve never liked the look. I dress “modestly” by U.K. standards and am happy to do so. I don’t want to worry about wardrobe malfunctions. I do like to dress nicely though. My shoes aren’t as high heeled as they used to be. Broken ankles finished that. The one item I cling to are denims. I keep seeing articles saying it’s for the young. Tough.

I dress in what I think suits me, follow trends loosely but also buy classic things like soft black and camel roll neck jumpers and good jeans. I think I look better in more fitted clothes but also love the loose dresses that have been around the last couple of years, worn with thick tights & boots in the cooler weather. I wouldn’t wear a mini skirt, crop top or plunging neckline now but then never did really as pencil skirts were the in thing when I was young. I do like brighter colours now, particularly greens & blues and oranges & corals for autumn. Prefer a more natural makeup, no frosted eyes or lips, if makeup looks like it’s been put on with a trowel it’s very ageing! Basically go with what you like & what suits your figure, with a pinch of decorum. I wish I could wear high heels more but they cripple me now.

Watched an old episode of 'Waiting for God' last night and the drunken wife in it was wearing the exact same pleated skirt and top I had from Country Casuals many years ago. Still wearing similar styles but a couple of sizes bigger. No desire to show any cleavage or nobbly knees even when covered in thick tights.

I dress to please me and really don't care what other people may think of me. I like to be comfortable in my clothes.

My favoured style (be it summer or winter) is jeans, trousers or long shorts, longline t-shirts, floaty tops, tunics or jumpers, flat shoes or sandals and no makeup. I have two summer skirts but rarely wear them.

I'm 72, 5'4" and definitely overweight with bulges in all the wrong places, so I never wear leggings, tights, or anything figure hugging. I do have one pair of (real) leather trousers, but they're a classic straight fit and look good even on me. I don't wear high heels (never have done), false eyelashes or artificial nails.

In my youth I wore the shortest mini skirts and hot pants imaginable, but also maxi skirts, afghan coats, thigh length boots etc. I was very slim and had great legs. Those days are gone now, just a happy memory. Our photo albums are a revelation to our AC and GC!

My grandmother often used the phrase 'Mutton dressed as lamb'. She was a very stylish dresser herself, made a lot of her own clothes, and looked much younger than her years. At 67 she applied for a job and put her age as 40! They believed her and she got the job. Eventually her deception was discovered. Her boss was amazed and paid her cash-in-hand from then on as he didn't want to lose her. She worked until her mid 70s when early dementia became apparent.

Mamma7

I wear what I want apart from short dresses/skirts - knee length is as far as I’ll go. I often wear very high heels although most wedges now and lots of colour. Love off the shoulder tops/dresses. I’ve said it before… the alternative is mutton dressed as mutton ?

Not at all. there are many alternatives in between, with a bit of class, taste and flair.

Mine too @57GrammarGrandma. There are things I might have tried some years ago but only once,
Practicality too, never been a one for low cut as an every day thing because of sun damage but OK for once in a while, and still once in a while as that area has not been aged by the sun

I recently bought a pair of black loafers from M&S, they had huge chunky heels and soles and I looked ridiculous in them. So they've been returned. (DH also pointed out they'd be dodgy to drive in!)

I think my choices are determined by size and shape rather than age.

I wear what I want apart from short dresses/skirts - knee length is as far as I’ll go. I often wear very high heels although most wedges now and lots of colour. Love off the shoulder tops/dresses. I’ve said it before… the alternative is mutton dressed as mutton ?

One thing I can't stand is Mums trying to look the very same as their adult daughters. I blame the botox trend for promoting a particular look. Unhealthy in my humble opinion. But generally I would say often our clothes reflect a little of our personality be it quirky or conformist. So celebrate who you are. Personally I find a decent haircut a bit of subtle make up, a neck scalf and a decent jacket work for me. Denim jacket over my dresses and pumps or
sandles were my summer style. My pixie boots and dark tights will be worn with knee length dresses for winter or narrow fit trews and baggy tops with a scalf for good measure.

I am 71. I have always had my own style....used to make all my own clothes. Have always been a bit bohemian. I have seen older women wearing clothes they really should not be wearing. Low cut tops showing off a wrinkly decolletage is really not flattering. Is is possible to dress with a modern style without resorting to clothes that are meant for younger people.

Age doesn’t have that much to do with it. Some young people could reflect just as much as we do, as to what looks good.

I wear what's comfortable and seasonal - don't care whether or not I'm dressing 'my age' (81). I use a tinted moisturiser that tones well with my skin and just enough blusher, blended in well to alleviate my natural pallor. I feel sad at the sight of women my age with wrinkles caked in make-up. I do try to wear lipstick, but can't seem ever to make it last
FYI, today I am wearing a pair of Cotton-traders stretchy-waistband jeans and a Woolovers lavender tunic.

Mollie3

My son used to say 1664 (like the French beer) looks 16 from behind but 64 from the front.

I hope that you told him off!

Livey

I have the most awful legs, big thighs and short with it !!!
I love maxi clothes, but have a problem in finding them Could any of you kind ladies' help

Hello Livey I recommend midi dresses from SeaSalt Cornwall (absolutely loads to chose from, and they are lovely)
I’m distinctly average height (5’5’’) and they come up mid calf on me, so I expect would be maxi on you.
Some are longer than others, but you can see that on the website.
They’ve got a sale on now too.
Even though I’m not short, I know that lots of maxi dresses absolutely trail in the floor.

As others have said, it's a very individual thing. If you were someone who liked to 'strut your stuff' as a younger woman you may feel great doing that.

Personally I dress in clothes that are comfortable yet stylish. No wrinkled cleavage on show! I'm a Seasalt devotee as their things are timeless. Dresses and skirts below the knee.

Also I'm very, very careful with how much makeup I wear. It is THE most unattractive thing if not done well. A minimal amount can look good....loads, not so... and that is at any age.

Also I leave 'bling' to the younger women. When I was young I had a fabulous glittery dress that I wore to discos, parties etc. I felt fabulous in it. Wouldn't be seen dead in anything like that now. I like to think I'm maturing artfully and gracefully. I'm owning my grey hair and having a really good cut.

Internally I'm more radical that I've ever been and I have more interest in my mature inner world that how I look to the rest of the world.

Other people can look at me and judge what's appropriate or not.. I've grown beyond worrying.

I finally have the freedom to be me and like the person I meet..

Mid 60s only thing I wouldn’t wear is mini skirts or revealing tops. Love fashion still buy my cloths in Zara mango and other stories cos.

Please. Let’s all wear what feels good. Really, who cares anyway.

Alot of lamb looks like mutton these days

I have the most awful legs, big thighs and short with it !!!
I love maxi clothes, but have a problem in finding them Could any of you kind ladies' help