CanadianGran Norah, that is a lot of cooking and hosting! You must be exhausted by New Years!
We've 4 children with spouse, quite spread in ages, they each have 2 children, with spouse, and those GC have lots of GGC one has GGGC. I also have siblings with spouses, children, GC, GGC and GGGC.
We used to have everyone at once, but it's chaotic unless a garden party. Much easier is a one daughter with spouse family of 15-24 each weekend during Advent. Easy food, no time consuming tedious sauces or gravy.
If you are dealing with narcissism, let’s all help each other.
When you are so incensed and find your inner bravery!



