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Funeral coat

(31 Posts)
RosiesMaw Thu 25-Jan-24 16:50:22

Do you have one?
I have various “subdued” wool coats but have reluctantly come to the conclusion that I need a black one.

Sadly too many elderly or not so elderly relatives and friends have died, there are too many funerals and being conservative most of those I have attended have been predominantly “black”.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 25-Jan-24 20:07:13

Mine is a black M&S wool coat bought in a sale at a bargain price. Funnily enough whilst having a cull of my wardrobe the other day I looked at it and wondered whether to add to the pile but no it survived.

flappergirl Thu 25-Jan-24 20:08:12

I haven't worn strictly black to a funeral for years and haven't seen the majority of other mourners doing so either. I would not wear bright colours unless it was requested though.

Tenko Thu 25-Jan-24 20:08:20

I have a long navy wool coat which I wear to funerals in the colder months . It was bought as a smart coat for a winter wedding in a church .
I feel that dark grey , navy and maroon/plum are acceptable for funerals .

M0nica Thu 25-Jan-24 20:33:38

I have a beautiful dark grey coat, which I wear all the time, and wear to funerals. I also have a soberly patterned dress.

These days dressing in black from top to toe looks a bit overdone, certainly, unless you are a member of the immediate family.

Black is a colour that does not suite me as I have a pasty complexion and I do not want to be confused for the dear departed.

MiniMoon Fri 26-Jan-24 00:29:01

Mine is a very dark purple wool coat. When I go to a funeral I accessorise with a black hat, gloves, boots and bag.