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New clothes - try this

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RosiesMaw2 Sun 29-Sept-24 17:46:08

A useful tip or piece of advice I picked up recently which I’d like to share - before anybody gets all self righteous or on their moral high ground and tells me they haven’t bought anything new since the millennium and only ever buy from charity shops (it applies here too) etc etc etc
When you buy something new, before you take the labels off, try it on in three different ways, different accessories, shoes or for 3 different occasions.
Take pictures of yourself on your phone .
If you can’t find 3 different ways to style it, however much you liked it, take it back, you don’t need it. (Hence the labels and receipts.)
If you can , the next time you are wondering what to wear you will have 3 different suggestions to draw on.
It may sound silly but it avoids impulse buying and possibly expensive mistakes or buying one item (however much of a bargain) and then spending more money or time trying to find things to go with it.

Allira Mon 30-Sept-24 22:09:52

Ps Amethyst earrings would be just right.
I'll put them on my Christmas list.

Allira Mon 30-Sept-24 22:08:58

Oreo

Allira

escaped

I bought a mohair gilet last week, and when I tried it on at home I realised I could wear it with the buttons at the front or down the back. That's 2 ways. Maybe I'll try it over my bottom as a skirt next!

You'd be right on trend 😂😂😂
The shorter the better!

I have a lovely soft purple/dark lilac cardigan in the wardrobe, never worn it because it goes with nothing I have, bought because I liked it.

Wont it look good with a black tee under it and jeans? Same colour earrings?

Yes, another idea, thank you.

Oreo Mon 30-Sept-24 21:32:04

Allira

escaped

I bought a mohair gilet last week, and when I tried it on at home I realised I could wear it with the buttons at the front or down the back. That's 2 ways. Maybe I'll try it over my bottom as a skirt next!

You'd be right on trend 😂😂😂
The shorter the better!

I have a lovely soft purple/dark lilac cardigan in the wardrobe, never worn it because it goes with nothing I have, bought because I liked it.

Wont it look good with a black tee under it and jeans? Same colour earrings?

Deedaa Mon 30-Sept-24 20:56:49

I don't often buy new but, if I am trying something on, my rule is does this look better than the clothes I came in wearing? It's surprising how often the answer is "No!"

RosiesMaw2 Mon 30-Sept-24 20:41:59

Returning should not be a struggle.

Both EVRI and RoyalMail will pick up from your doorstep(the latter at no additional charge)

Dottydots Mon 30-Sept-24 19:10:22

I'm not buying clothes on line anymore. If I can't try before I buy, then I'm not going to. The last three items I bought, 2 jumpers, 1 blouse, were a disappointing colour. Should have sent them back but I struggle a bit doing that. Stuck in my wardrobe now and will no doubt end up in charity shop.

Norah Mon 30-Sept-24 15:35:01

I buy mostly white, black, navy, grey clothing - and a small amount of pink, pale blue, aqua, burgundy. Lots of scarves and coloured shoes.

Great idea, I'll think in future - 3 ways to use each purchase.

Frenchgalinspain Mon 30-Sept-24 14:58:00

Frenchgalinspain

When it comes to clothes, I am a professional and so I always purchase jackets and trousers in solid neutrals that pair with lovely silk / silky shirting / blouses or turtlenecks and loads of scarves to pair with colors that pick up the suits.

At the weekends, I am a jeans woman and adore denim and leather jackets and of course great wool coats and fab sweaters depending on the weather.

Here in the early am - it is approx 11 centig and mid day 20 centig.

So, I peel off layers before I leave the studio and place in a bag neatly in my big bag.

My favourite shop is Zata .. Smart and decent prices and always an excellent fit for me .. No alterations.

ZARA - NOT Zata .. Typing error.

Allira Mon 30-Sept-24 14:55:19

I do have a dark red top which could go underneath.
Never thought of red, pascal30, thanks. 🙂
With black trousers.

Frenchgalinspain Mon 30-Sept-24 14:52:29

When it comes to clothes, I am a professional and so I always purchase jackets and trousers in solid neutrals that pair with lovely silk / silky shirting / blouses or turtlenecks and loads of scarves to pair with colors that pick up the suits.

At the weekends, I am a jeans woman and adore denim and leather jackets and of course great wool coats and fab sweaters depending on the weather.

Here in the early am - it is approx 11 centig and mid day 20 centig.

So, I peel off layers before I leave the studio and place in a bag neatly in my big bag.

My favourite shop is Zata .. Smart and decent prices and always an excellent fit for me .. No alterations.

pascal30 Mon 30-Sept-24 14:42:26

Allira

escaped

I bought a mohair gilet last week, and when I tried it on at home I realised I could wear it with the buttons at the front or down the back. That's 2 ways. Maybe I'll try it over my bottom as a skirt next!

You'd be right on trend 😂😂😂
The shorter the better!

I have a lovely soft purple/dark lilac cardigan in the wardrobe, never worn it because it goes with nothing I have, bought because I liked it.

That's a colour that goes well with reds, maroons, khaki greens.. just get the tones similar.. It's a lovely colour

4allweknow Mon 30-Sept-24 14:13:00

Clothes are my worst nightmare. Usually by an outfit for a specific occasion without any thought of how else it can be worn. Seems a good idea, but will I use it, will wait and see.

Happilyretired123 Mon 30-Sept-24 12:46:26

That is a great idea! The number of things I have bought over the years which then need more clothes to make different outfits. Thank you

mabon1 Mon 30-Sept-24 12:07:36

My late husband didn't have any dress sense. I put a shirt, jumper and trouser and tie on a hanger for all his outfits. He thought it was great as he knew everything would match.

Jaxjacky Mon 30-Sept-24 12:06:35

Similar here Shantygirly jeans with t shirt/long sleeved shirt/jumper, dependent on the temperature. Shorts in summer, or if it’s really hot a long cotton dress, that’s about it, I too replace clothes as they wear out, I don’t buy for the sake of it.

Shantygirly Mon 30-Sept-24 11:32:38

I have two types of outfits, tunic (Seasalt) and leggings or a dress (again mostly Seasalt) except when we have a hot spell it's shorts and T shirt and cold weather jumper and jeggings. Done.

V3ra Mon 30-Sept-24 01:57:10

I have a lovely soft purple/dark lilac cardigan in the wardrobe, never worn it because it goes with nothing I have, bought because I liked it.

I have one of those, although mine is a pretty mint green 🙂

Yours would go well with my lilac Ben Sherman boots I found in TKMaxx many years ago when I didn't need them. They've had so much wear ever since 🤗

NotSpaghetti Mon 30-Sept-24 01:50:57

I have a few linen dresses which are nearly the same but different colours. I wear whichever is ironed - a bit like a uniform.
I wear things underneath in poorer weather.
I hate having to find outfits so mainly just wear the same thing!

Beechnut Mon 30-Sept-24 00:59:26

Allira

I do have black trousers but it needs a top underneath as it's a v-neck, Ziplok, a light top would work.

Actually, I've just seen something very similar on Woolovers website paired with indigo jeans and a white shirt.
Neither of which I possess but it's an idea!

You could wear it at Christmas Allira.

Redhead56 Mon 30-Sept-24 00:32:14

It’s a good idea I am an impulsive buyer without doubt so will consider my options more wisely hopefully.

Allira Sun 29-Sept-24 23:11:40

I do have black trousers but it needs a top underneath as it's a v-neck, Ziplok, a light top would work.

Actually, I've just seen something very similar on Woolovers website paired with indigo jeans and a white shirt.
Neither of which I possess but it's an idea!

Ziplok Sun 29-Sept-24 23:03:15

Allira have you got some black or grey trousers, black jeans or a black skirt that you could pair your lilac cardigan with? Is it a high buttoned cardigan that could be worn as a jumper or does it require a blouse or sleeveless top to wear underneath it? If it requires something to be underneath it, perhaps another tonal colour that would work with it (eg a lighter shade of the lilac/purple of the cardigan) and work with the trousers/jeans/skirt. It seems such a shame not to wear it if you like it.

M0nica Sun 29-Sept-24 22:49:40

RosiesMaw2

M0nica

I cannot be bothered with mixing and matching. I put an outfit on a hanger ready composed, so that all I need do is take the hanger off the rail and everything is ready and sorted for me to wear.

This can be so uneconomical. I believe in making my clothes earn their keep and by mixing and matching , adding a scarf for a pop of colour or a different top/skirt I aim to get full value from my wardrobe.

Why is it uneconomical? everything gets a wear in turn. Nothing hangs in my cupboard unworn.

I work on the basis of having a relatively small wardrobe of clothes and wearing them regularly and when they wear out replacing them. The last thing I want to do in the morning is ahving to think about what to wear. I just want to reach out, take a hanger and know that a complete outfit is on that hanger.

Romola Sun 29-Sept-24 21:54:55

52bright I'm with you on this, if the garment you're trying on doesn't look any better than what you're wearing, leave it.
Having said that, clothes do go out of fashion and now and again updating becomes appropriate.

NotAGran55 Sun 29-Sept-24 21:31:32

If you only buy clothes in colours that suit you, and your clothing style you can’t go wrong.
I’m a true autumn, natural ingenue, and would never buy anything that wasn’t.
Everything in the wardrobe is right.