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Advice please on how to tell my hairdresser of 15 years I want a change

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Ailsa43 Sun 10-Nov-24 22:23:17

Why do you have to tell them anything. Just make an appointment with another hairdresser, and never go bacck...or call and tell them that now you've moved house you have to find a stylist closer to where you live . Easy!

silverlining48 Sun 10-Nov-24 22:20:45

I am doing the same with my podiatrist
I have been with him for 15 years he is very nice but he keeps putting his already high price up, and it’s an hours round trip with problem parking too.
I made an appointment with a new podiatrist within 5 minutes drive to me who charged half his price and I was really happy with what she did.
Really there is no need to say anything to your hairdresser.

nanna8 Sun 10-Nov-24 22:16:21

Just tell them- they are working for you, not you for them.

BlueBelle Sun 10-Nov-24 21:30:58

I moved about two years ago I didn’t offer an explanation just said I couldn’t book at the moment as I wasn’t sure of my free days
I made a new appointment with a new hairdresser who was just as good and nearly half the price !
We are paying for a service your choice where to go

eazybee Sun 10-Nov-24 21:05:33

Try other salons in conjunction with less regular visits to your salon, citing difficulties in getting appointments and driving in the dark. You may find other salons equally difficult, so try before you announce you are leaving.

Calendargirl Sun 10-Nov-24 20:36:56

I assume you usually book another appointment when she has finished doing your hair, and it’s this that you are worrying about?

Why not say, “I’m not going to book another appointment yet, I’m finding it not so convenient now I’ve moved further away, and you aren’t open as many days. So thank you, but I’ll leave it for now”.

Then look for someone else, but your option is there to go back if nothing suitable.

I’m the same, would agonise over these things.

Grandmadinosaur Sun 10-Nov-24 20:34:58

I have a similar problem to you happilyretired .

Your first 2 points apply to me. My hairdresser crams her hours into 4 days but like you they are not always convenient for me. Some of the days I can manage but she is always running late which is very annoying as she is such a chatterbox. She never apologises or acknowledges me until she’s ready for my appointment.

I would like to change to one of the other 4 stylists in the salon but how do I do this?

crazyH Sun 10-Nov-24 20:15:59

Do what JaneJudge did - just go elsewhere. Your old Hairdresser does not need to know . Good luck

JaneJudge Sun 10-Nov-24 20:07:36

I haven’t told my old place btw. I’ve moved on 😂

Gingster Sun 10-Nov-24 20:07:13

You have stated the three real ways of telling them.

Say you don’t want to drive so far now you have moved and you just can’t find an appointment to suit you. I’m sure they will understand .

You will find somewhere closer to home and a change is as good as a rest as they say.

JaneJudge Sun 10-Nov-24 20:06:57

This has happened to me too, all the same circumstances!
I booked a consultation with my closest salon last week and I’ve had a cut and colour since. They are half the price but I have felt a bit upset about not going to my normal place but I’m a bit sentimental.
We need to embrace change x

Galaxy Sun 10-Nov-24 20:00:51

Just go somewhere else. You don't need to explain.

theworriedwell Sun 10-Nov-24 19:58:36

I'd just make an appointment somewhere that suits you. You are a customer not a close friend. If she is winding down I'm sure there are lots of old customers she no longer sees.

Happilyretired123 Sun 10-Nov-24 19:54:55

Advice please!

Happilyretired123 Sun 10-Nov-24 19:54:03

Please can any of you advise on how to tell my hairdresser of 15 plus years that I no longer want them to do my hair!
Over the years my hairdresser who runs a small village salon has done a great job. However things have changed in the last 6 months. First,they have dropped down to part time hours (I think running up to retirement) making it difficult to find an appointment that works for me too.
Secondly I feel they are so used to doing my hair, they take it for granted I want the same style and colour even though I have actually said I would look some different options as my greying hair is very dry and wiry, and the colour I used to have no longer looks good in my opinion.
Third I have moved about 10 miles away. Not far I know but have to drive along dark country roads if the appointment can only be later in the day to suit them, and in winter I don’t like doing this.
I don’t want to upset them as we have always been on friendly terms, but now I just want to find a salon open most days that will treat me as a proper customer and give advice about my ageing hair to look the best it can.
Any advice on how to do this tactfully much appreciated thank you