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Friend dreadful reaction to hair dye.

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Lovetopaint037 Mon 10-Feb-25 11:14:22

Friend has successfully dyed her lovely curley hair for years. It is a darkish brown colour but her hair is white. Suddenly a hair dye she has used without any problems caused a terrible rash all over her body. She does this at home.The doctor said it was an allergy and prescribed medication which is working.However she has now to avoid hair dye and is faced with how to revert to her natural white colour. She has thought of doing this before but the growing out process would be difficult as her hair, which is lovely, is so Curley it appears to be shorter than it is which is shoulder length. She wants to avoid any other dyes as another episode is dangerous. Has anyone else had this happen to them and has any ideas to make the growing out easier.

sunglow12 Tue 11-Feb-25 21:42:51

I saw a young lady patient of 35 who always had used the same very popular permanent hair dye for years . She came onto my unit with partial thickness burns to her scalp with large painful weeping blisters . She said she had done a patch test . We had to completely shave her head then clean it thoroughly to prevent infection then put a specialist cream on the scalp . The texture was like the crinkly spinach served with Chinese meals , I thought . Black or very dark hair dyes are the worst . The colour difficult to grow out if you have white hair because of the two tone contrast effect . I use an ammonia / hydrogen peroxide free Daniel Field water colour ( the real one) very infrequently (every 3 months) to blend in with my greying , used to be strawberry blond hair so no roots . Very sensitive skin with psoriasis but this has been fine but you never know . If I got an allergy to it would simply stop using it . It only colours white hair . They give advice if you contact them apparently . My former hairdresser friend suggested Ash Blonde in this colour and I mix in just a tiny bit of soft golden blonde it works for me anyway . Am not sure if this is right but I often see older people with very dark dyed hair who have very much thinning hair and I think that could be due to using strong permanent dyes for many years . White hair actually can look beautiful.

Kugala Wed 12-Feb-25 11:55:19

I would honestly advise your friend to avoid ALL hair dye after such an awful reaction. It simply isn’t worth the risk to her health.

If your friend is on social media, there’s a lovely private Facebook page called Silver Sisters with women from all over the world who have embraced their natural hair colour. There’s also another private Facebook group called Curly Silvers which deals with the specific challenges of curly grey/silver/white hair.

I’ve attached an image of my hair while it was growing out a few years ago. My hair and scalp are so much healthier now!

Lathyrus3 Wed 12-Feb-25 12:09:56

Talked to my hairdresser yesterday about it and she suggested having extensions woven in. Short dark ones at the roots and white longer ones at the point of change so that your friend gets a streaked look, rather like nandad describes in her post above.

Lovetopaint037 Thu 13-Feb-25 05:50:27

Thank you everyone. Kugul thank you for the hairband idea. Also for the positive sounding outcome. Will be telling her about your experience. You sound very much like her.

TwinLolly Thu 13-Feb-25 14:43:26

Would henna work 🤔 ?