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So much for a warm sunny wedding guest outfit...

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CanadianGran Sat 24-May-25 20:35:23

Today we are invited to the wedding of the daughter of my good friend. Knowing the end of May weather can go either way, I had two dress options, one sleeveless cottony frock, the other a jersey wrap dress.

It is 9 degrees and raining sideways here today! Option 2 is the answer, but I was hoping to wear high sandals with no stockings, but it's too cold for that!

The whole event is at the curling club hall, which is quite large. I'm hoping the heat is on enough so we are at least not needing a sweater indoors! At least the men have suit jackets.

Oh, summer, please come! I haven't worn any of my summer clothes yet.

Pining away for summer clothing. Do you have events to go to in the next while, and what are you wearing?

Oreo Sat 24-May-25 20:49:48

Oh what a shame for you and all the guests.Weather, even Summer weather is so unpredictable isn’t it? It’s been lovely up to now here in Southern England dry and sunny for almost two months but rain all today and needing a cardi on.
I haven’t any events to dress up for but just love wearing cotton skirts and dresses at the weekends and bare legs and sandals.

Deedaa Sat 24-May-25 21:00:30

I've got lunch with old friends in a month's time. I only see them a couple of times a year so I like to scrub up reasonably well. Hopefully it will be warm enough for my favourite dress and a linen jacket. At the beginning of July I'm going to a grandparent's day at GS2's school. I'm thinking smartish trousers with a T shirt and jacket. I expect quite a few of the other grandparents will be Indian and will be rather well dressed.

CanadianGran Sat 24-May-25 21:03:53

Grandparent's day, what a nice idea!

keepingquiet Sat 24-May-25 21:15:56

Yes, apparently they have one at my granddaughter's school. I would love to go but don't see the point of dressing up...

Jaxjacky Sat 24-May-25 21:19:31

We have a family bbq on Monday, looks like at 16 a jumper may be required, south of England too, but only spots of rain today.

tanith Sat 24-May-25 22:36:33

I went to the Chelsea flower show today, luckily it was warm but cloudy, a few spots of rain for half an hour then it was cloudy but dry for the rest of the day. I wore natural wide leg linen trousers with a very muted green, cream and orange blouse with a white cardigan and trainers for comfort.

Diffuser Sat 24-May-25 23:04:42

It's been such super weather here for quite the while, so I decided that I needed some more summer clothes, so I ordered some, they arrived yesterday and it's poured down today ☔
CanadianGran, could you not wear your jersey wrap dress with your high sandals and take a wrap

Crossstitchfan Sat 24-May-25 23:16:20

Diffuser

It's been such super weather here for quite the while, so I decided that I needed some more summer clothes, so I ordered some, they arrived yesterday and it's poured down today ☔
CanadianGran, could you not wear your jersey wrap dress with your high sandals and take a wrap

So it’s YOUR fault it rained, diffuser! 🌂
Seriously, why does it always rain on special days like Half term and such?

Crossstitchfan Sat 24-May-25 23:21:55

Deedaa

I've got lunch with old friends in a month's time. I only see them a couple of times a year so I like to scrub up reasonably well. Hopefully it will be warm enough for my favourite dress and a linen jacket. At the beginning of July I'm going to a grandparent's day at GS2's school. I'm thinking smartish trousers with a T shirt and jacket. I expect quite a few of the other grandparents will be Indian and will be rather well dressed.

Is grandparents day a thing now? I used to hate Sports Days so I’m glad my grandchildren are now grown up. I pride myself on the fact I went to just about all of my children’s Days! That’s love!

Esmay Sun 25-May-25 08:32:55

I went to a wedding last month and my outfit proved to be a real dilemma :

I bought a new dress (long ) ,
some foundations and some low heeled shoes . I normally wear trainers .
On the past I've been tempted with cheap shoes from Primark and haven't been able to walk in them . I chose Clarks .
Getting dressed I picked up a too small foundation garment which was still in the M and S bag .
Having got it on and realised my mistake I nearly had to reach for the scissors !
Lesson - try your outfit on the day before and hang it up ready !
The dress was synthetic-I'd opt for cotton now.
I topped it with a really expensive old but beautiful wool coat .
The temperature plummeted that evening.
All the women were shivering.
I was so glad of it.
Perhaps a cotton dress and a pashmina is a good option .
I also don't recommend high heels if you aren't used to walking in then.
Many guests work in the medical profession and wear flats ..They had tremendous problems walking in them as the evening progressed they were kicked off .
Very few people wore hats and not many wore fascinators.
All the ladies had agonised over what to wear until the last minute .
When I got home a staggering eleven hours later I was so glad that I'd opted for comfort
Enjoy the wedding .

escaped Sun 25-May-25 09:07:30

I usually stick to my original choice, (and freeze with a smile!).
It's deliberating the footwear according to the weather that sends me crazy.

CanadianGran Sun 25-May-25 21:02:00

I ended up with the wrap dress (it is a jersey knit and has 3/4 sleeves. I also had a cardigan, and needed it!

The wedding was lovely, but as I thought, the hall was quite large and if the heat was on, it took a while to heat up the room. Many of the women kept cardigans, wraps or even coats on. And someone kept propping open the doors to let in fresh air, so there was a draft as well.

Luckily, DH likes to dance, so we got moving after the dinner. Not our kind of music, but it's fun to get dancing anyway. Techno-pop anyone? We did what we could...smile

I am going to visit my daughter down south later in the week, and the forcast is looking like proper late spring weather, so I will be able to pack and wear some of my summer clothing at last. Looking forward to it.

It's still a miserable 10 degrees and raining on and off here.

Blossoming Sun 25-May-25 22:26:20

Thanks for the update CanadianGran.

Naticastyle Thu 31-Jul-25 08:15:19

Weather can definitely throw a curveball when planning the perfect wedding guest outfit! It’s always smart to have a stylish layer like a shawl or light jacket on hand. Comfort and confidence matter most, rain or shine. Hope the day was still lovely despite the surprise chill.

Athrawes Thu 31-Jul-25 11:35:02

Fingers crossed my granddaughter's wedding will be sunny next month! I've got the dress and a light bolero but I shall take a warm jacket if it's chilly - or a shawl which is a good idea [thanks Naticastyle!]