What to do with very fine silver hair

Thanks for replying. My point was that my hair looks good ONLY when just washed. After a day it becomes wayward and frizzy. But because it is very dry I can't wash it often.

Any way, some good news is that I've discovered coconut oil works well to tame the frizz. I followed a thread on Mumsnet that recommended coconut oil for frizz. The thread was unusually positive about a product, so I tried it. Like the Mumsnetters, I'm very happy with the result. I just take a tiny amount (about the tip of a teaspoon), rub between my hands until it's soft, then pat gently on the frizz. (Coconut oil is solid in the jar, though I believe it can be bought in liquid form.)

I can’t really see what advice you need jenner. It sounds as if you are happy with your hair? Mine is much like yours, but it’s dry, so I don’t wash it every day, more like 3 times a fortnight. All I can add is to have it trimmed regularly into a style that suits your face and that you’re able to manage at home.