Silvershadow
But we don’t all live in your area Wyllow so us southerners and our daughters and grand daughters aren’t aware of it. We have our own community news in our own areas. And isn’t it lovely to have a break from ‘serious issues and community initiatives’ which I believe should be on the news and politics thread where you usually post prolifically.
This thread is about admiration for a lady 99% of women in the UK, who know if her, would admire.
Well, there are several ways of approaching this: what do we think of her hair and get up as such, as individuals, just in a visual sense..yes but......
But in fact it is political, in the social/cultural sense that we all perceive the world in different ways depending on the culture we live in.
If you see it as properly belonging only in style and beauty then that your POV - fair enough, but it's not an "absolute".
Our particular culture sees looking younger as "beautiful" and it can but affect all of us.
At its extremes it's "I look 20 years younger!!!" "her husband is x years younger" (what a triumph!!??...why?)
Other cultures value their elders in completely different ways: wisdom and respect don't come with being wrinkle free or getting that hair colour dyed just right.
For we don't live as individuals, we live within a society, where we form our notions accordingly (ie many different POV, but overall ours has become one where youthful looks have a "value" it doesn't in others).
And of course, its still the case that an older woman's face is often perceived differently to a mans: a mans crinkles and wrinkles are "interesting" " show character"