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Can texting replace phone calls?

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Willow500 Tue 12-Jun-18 17:22:28

No one ever rings my mobile unless it's in error or PPI calls! There are times when I wish they would just ring me as I find it very time consuming texting/messaging like ping pong. A quick call might take less time hmm

Grandma70s Tue 12-Jun-18 17:17:00

I am the only person that my sons (in their forties) actually speak to on the phone. They just use texts among their contemporaries. I insist I like to hear a voice.

polyester57 Tue 12-Jun-18 17:00:57

I am sorry, but I agree with your sister-in-law. I frequently text my s-i-l, with just small insignificant messages, I do not want to get into long drawn-out conversations on the subject, she inevitably calls back and we end up talking for ages. I have a feeling that some people have lost the knack of readi ng a writing.

LiltingLyrics Tue 12-Jun-18 16:54:45

It might be worth posing the question why.

Most mobile phone deals now contain generous sometimes unlimited call allowances but I often hear older people saying they don't like using their mobiles for calls as "it's expensive".

Another reason may be that she is not hearing that well any more and doesn't want to admit it.

arcadia03 Tue 12-Jun-18 16:44:44

My mobile phone rang. It was my sister in law. Just missed the call, as putting up curtains, so phoned back, to find that she did not want to speak, but was texting me to wish my sick grandson better! She had pressed the call button accidentally but still didn't want to speak! I am amazed at the lack of manners (from an eighty year old) but also at the attitude that a text was all I was entitled to, having rung her back. This is not the first time she has done this. Should I tell her I don't do texts any more?