Thanks to you all for your advice, much appreciated.
My i pad is only a couple of years old, but as for the router, it’s the same one we’ve always had, and DS said a while ago to get a new one. So when I spoke to my broadband provider recently, ( review time) I requested a new one, should be here any day, but might have to chase as I felt the chap on the other end was a bit new, and hope he got it sorted.
Am sure also that I need to de-clutter, as DH’s I pad seems ok.
Thanks again, will let you know how it goes.
Recommendations for fans please


Others are not so fortunate.