I have a friend, who is also extremely paranoid about the Internet.
She does not believe in Internet banking etc etc.
Me? I do everything on line…….banking, emails, shopping , newspapers etc etc.
Only once, in all these years, have I been subject to some sort of fraud. Either through human error or online fraud, payments were made to people unknown to me.
Fortunately, I do check my accounts almost daily. As soon as I discovered it, I rang the fraud Department and the money was returned to my account.
Elles can’t quite understand what really happened in your case.