Travelling alone when older

I know what Foxygloves means, but, for me, I’d have to give up doing things ( or not doing them) to completely suit myself. I’ve been on solo trips since the Bodach died, but only to places I know, so if I don’t feel fit enough to go out, I don’t need to. Allsorts may find a river cruise a good option, and you can get Special Assistance at the airport if that’s a concern. Strangely enough, a friend I was with today spoke very highly of Ama river cruises, so that might be worth a look.

I have now been away twice with a company called Just You. They have a wide variety of holidays here and abroad and I have met some lovely people. I am going to South Africa in November and Costa Rica in March but have already been to Croatia and Slovenia.

Lots of good advice here and I will just add that long ago I did a holiday on my own - not an organised group - and wrote a diary every day. This gave me some of the benefits of having someone to talk to about the day - kind of talking to the diary, and it really helped. I hope you will be able to follow whichever bit of advice feels best for you and feel the fear and do it anyway! Good luck.

I did a tour and a cruise in one holiday on my own and met an older lady in her 80s and the whole group kept an eye on her and a chinese gentleman who spoke little English, so if we went on a day trip, they were kept in safe sight and ensure back on the boat/coach etc. I would go on my own and the suggestion of a weekend on the continent on your own, is a good idea.

I recently travelled to Italy with a friend who became unwell and returned home leaving me to negotiate trains and so on alone. It was a revelation! I became so much more confident and meet far more people than on other holidays. Go for it!

Not my preference but how about a cruise. Some are quite short eg Scandinavia, Portugal. At least you would be amongst people and there are often coach trips organised for when the ship docks.

Do you like camping! I'm off to Scotland for 3 weeks on 16th June. I belong to a camping group. Happy to add you !

Just done Manchester-Singapore-Perth-Sydney-Auckland-Sydney-Singapore-Manchester on my own aged 72! Family in Perth and friend in Auckland, rest on my own.
Suggest a travel group like Riviera or a coach holiday. Don’t give up!

Cruising is a good way to holiday for solo travellers. You can book organised excursions to the places the ship stops at, choose to dine with other solo travellers, plus there are also lots of activities and entertainment when on board. I’m not a solo traveller, but have done loads of cruises where lots of solos are on board and have a fab time.

How lovely pinkjj27
Wishing you all the best for your trip.

Just thought I'd add that my mother-in-law went on a Artists and their Gardens holiday alone in her 80s (niche little tour) some art some gardens - as she said "not too much of one or the other".

She had a good time and enjoyed the French Riviera. It was a coach trip once in France and she enjoyed having evening meals in company. I don't think many people were travelling together.

If this sort of thing appeals I will ask her who she went with.

Think I might consider this sort of thing myself should I be alone one day...

Travel insurance for the over 70s. If you have a Nationwide bank account they charge £ 65 extra this is for worldwide insurance. It’s an absolute bargain . That account also includes breakdown and phone insurance.

When I was a little girl I lived in the USA and my dads job took me all around the world except the UK. I grew up longing to see the UK, but life got in the way and I never went anywhere apart from Weymouth.
My 2nd husband always said when we retire, we will go here and there but sadly, he died. Lots of my friend and family said oh I will come with you, one day, but it never happened.
In January I had a cancer scare, all Is fine but on one very worrying day, I just looked up coach holidays rang up to ask a few questions and hung up having booked a week to Yorkshire for later this.
One of my concerns was that I would stick out like a sore thumb being on my own and I am quite an active young looking younger person. She said well on this trip we allowed 5 single rooms with no single room supplement and you just booked the last one. I guess that could be friends traveling in a group but not all couples. She said the average age on this type of late 40s to late 50 early 60s so I should blend in. I have fully paid for that trip
I have now booked 2 for next year including one for Scotland. I probably should have waited to see if I enjoyed the coach holiday but I have to pay in instalments and I got a special early bird deal.
I love my own company and if I need to say oh look at that, I talk to my self anyway so thats fine or I will take a photo and send it to my friends/ family. I tend to be an easy going person that fits in with others so this is a way of making sure that this trip is about me.

I loved travelling but what stops me now is the exorbitant cost of travel insurance.Has anyone found a good company who are not out to rip youb off because you are over 80.?
I can recommend Jules Verne who do have some no single supplements , but as with other companies these are often at off- peak times.

I recommend Viking River Cruises.

Easy process, they do it all for you - everything is provided on the boat. Nice excursions off the boat are also included in the booking. We've seen many singletons on the boats.

Totally agree , it’s more than confidence it’s some to talk to about the experience.

I can recommend HF Holidays. They do special interest holidays in the UK as well as walking breaks. Special interest include singing, art, craft, music, cooking, board games etc. They own lovely country houses where you stay, most if not all have en-suite rooms, and plenty of single people attend. Its easy to make friends when you share an interest and you could start off with a weekend break to see if you like it.

I would recommend Riviera Travel as they do really good holidays for solo travellers. I've travelled to Spain - Seville, Granada etc and just returned from India with them. No single supplements and wonderful tour managers who always go the extra mile to make it a great experience.

Before covid my husband and I went on a cruise to the Norwegian fjords. It was only 7 nights and we boarded at Tilbury. There were quite a few single people enjoying g the trip. I spoke to one gentleman who had been a widower for over 20 years, he was on his 20th solo holiday, cruising was his favourite type of holiday.

Susynan

Try a short break, say to a European city, and see how that goes?

European city - great idea. Can I suggest Ireland, such friendly people, beautiful countryside, easy to drive there as it's same as UK. Airbnb means you can cook your own food so you're not eating out all the time, and watch TV in English!

Try Saga or specialist companies for those travelling alone ? Or a cruise or train or coach trip So easy to meet people Good luck and let us know how it all goes x

Dont talk to me about single supplements. They are a rip off and just another way in which single people get economically raped. I usually avoided package holidays for this reason and booked independently with hotels for just the first night. Then you can bargain with them for a better deal. If they have free rooms they dont want you going elsewhere. This works best off season and non tourist destinations.

If you have never travelled on your own before, I suggest you book a one or two week package holiday to depending on your tastes, either some city you would like to visit - I would recommend Prague, or a holiday resort if that is more your kind of thing.

You don't have to go everywhere with the group as long as the guide knows you are going off on your own and when to expect you will be back at the hotel, but you do have the advantage that all the arrangements are made.

You won't have to find your own way around unless you want to and if anything should go wrong - sorting it out is part of the guide's job.

There will probably be others on their own and you may well find one or two congenial people to spend time with.

Been going on solo trips for about four years now……because I like to visit places that interest me and my husband isn’t interested in holidays abroad any more….says he doesn’t have enough patience for all the inconveniences of airline travel! We live in Canada and i really enjoy holidays in Europe as well as English garden tours so I have to get myself to England where most of the trips start from and plan my trips carefully. This is because I mostly book with British travel companies. My absolute favourite travel company is One Traveller …..they are such an excellent company to travel solo with and their escorted tours are so carefully and thoughtfully planned - I would highly recommend them - especially if you are hesitant about going solo!

Why not try a cruise? You can have company when you wish and quiet time if needed. P&O have daily coffee mornings for single people to meet other singletons. Another advantage is that you cam wander alone at ports of call or join the safety of escorted tours. You are also given a choice of dining table size again, with singletons.

Thoroughly recommend. I have done two world tours and many much shorter ones.