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Scary experiences travelling solo

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TwiceAsNice Fri 08-Mar-24 12:49:32

I’ve been done but have always been with at least one other person rather than on my own.

My ex husband was working in Nigeria. You have to have a driver, you can’t drive alone. The car was pulled over by the local police and he was robbed at gun point , the driver was a wreck

BlueBelle Fri 08-Mar-24 12:06:06

My grandson had his dead Dads gold chain yanked from his neck from behind him in Amsterdam but these are things that unfortunately happen anywhere
I personally never have had a problem and my grandaughter who is trotting round the world now seems to only meet nice helpful people
I love Barcelona Sago one of my favourite cities
I was warned when I was in Russia but never found anything untoward everyone was kind and attentive
Unfortunately crime happens everywhere

utterbliss Fri 08-Mar-24 11:58:51

I had my bottom patted and my long blond hair stroked while visiting the Cairo Museum

The two young Egyptian men were forcibly thrown onto the

ground by a group of American tourists.

The Egyptian security man for the Museum was even more brutal.
I just wanted to hide. An American lady berated me for being foolish to travel alone. Up till then, I had been enjoying my trip.

Witzend Fri 08-Mar-24 11:36:56

Not personally, but I know people who have.

A sister had a gold chain snatched from around her neck when she and BiL were just getting out of a taxi very close to the entrance to their hotel in Nairobi. There was a good reason by then why it was then known as Nairobbery - tourists were often warned not to have any valuable jewellery or e.g. watches on show.
I had previously visited several times for my job, but never had any trouble - but then at the time I never had anything worth nicking!

We later lived for 13 years in Middle Eastern Muslim countries, so were very well aware later, of the need to dress conservatively when out and about on holiday with adult dds in Egypt. All was fine if dh was with us, but we would be pestered to death if we ever went out without him.

Though I should add that in Oman where we spent most of those years abroad, I never once felt remotely unsafe or uncomfortable when out and about on my own. The manners of the locals were generally impeccable.

Sago Fri 08-Mar-24 11:31:32

Not alone but I had an unpleasant experience in Barcelona, it’s not a City I like.
The best things a lone traveller can have are a simple rubber door wedge to secure your room door and a can of deep heat spray.

Galaxy Fri 08-Mar-24 11:24:34

I am not sure the point you are making. Because something didnt happen to you, it doesnt happen?

biglouis Fri 08-Mar-24 11:21:51

Have any of you ever had scary or unfortunate experiences where you were robbed or threatened while travelling abroad?

I just read a thread on Mumsnet where people have been robbed by corrupt police, border guards or customs officers while travelling solo in countries like Mexico and some of the eastern European countries.

Thinking of the time I travelled solo to such countries as Iran, Syria, Egypt, Jordan and Lebanon. Nothing of that kind ever happened to me and I often went into the homes of ordinary people when invited. No one ever threatend me, demanded money or sex or anything of that order. I should add that I always dressed modestly in long loose clothes and often wore a headscarf.

The worst that ever happened was that sometimes in hotels the room boy would try it on. In such countries rooms are often cleaned by young men and they may see European solo women as fair game. In Iran, for example, housekeeping would come to my room with the excuse of bringing someing in the hope of seeing me without a headscarf. I would always shout "Leave in outside". Ive also had random knocks on my door at late hours (including Italy).

On Amazon you can buy tricky little gadgets which allow you to lock a door from the inside so that even someone with an electronic pass cant get in. With old fashioned metal keys you just turn it in the lock from the inside. I always disconnected the telephone at night to deter random phone calls.

Its just a question of taking simple precautions.