As I sat watching the guest speaker on BBC news this morning I wanted to throw somthing at the screen. He was talking about who’d look after the future elderly. In his opinion family should take their elderly relatives into their own home and care for them. Could he please tell me how that will be possible when, 1 future generations will probably have to work into their late 60’s. 2, if they do as he says they’ll compromise their own pensions contributions. 3, The next generation will probably still have mortgages because they bought in their late 30’s. 4, They will probably still have adult children at home. Now if he could have suggested some ways society could encourage his utopian ideas that would have been helpful, for example 1,up cares allowance in line of what the carer earned, 2 protect the cares pension contributions, provide financial help to make amendments to the house. My advice to him is “ if you can’t say anything useful don’t say anything at all. All you’ve done is make yourself look patronising. You’ve insulted and added to grief and guilt that lots of hardworking families who haven’t been able to care for the people they’ve lost and loved in their own homes. Just shut up. ?? I don’t know the answer to how my generation will be cared for our old age but one thing I do know is it won’t be his way. I’m sure gransnetters could come up with more sensible suggestions.