AyjayF….Thanks! I really appreciate it when a program (writer. director etc.,) treat the audience with respect instead of just churning out the same old same old!
Kitty and jaqu10....that’s how I see her too! The characters did come across in the first series as rather grotesque characatures. But look behind their hard exteriors and you will see frail vulnerable humans doing the best they can! The writer is a genius at quietly showing the audience the inner pain and subtext of each character....if you just look a little closer. As for Kathy she stands up for the underdog in her understated way. Look at how she changed kelly’s Mothers attitude to her daughter. How she coaxed her son to see kelly’s POV over moving to Australia. How she tries hard to ignore Dereks girlfriends gibes. How she eventually puts her in her place (no doormat there, or malice just straight forward) The only person she didn’t see well enough for who he is was Michael, until later on anyway. Sorry to rumble on but this program makes me cry every episode...even on re runs!!
I agree with you Kittylester. I don't think she's a doormat. I think she has been content with her life and has memories of a very happy marriage and has probably always put other people first and was happy doing so. Michael was an old friend of her husband and understands and now loves her for what she is and they are both hestitant to upset those around them but hopefully they will put themselves first for once.
If I was the scriptwriter I would have a field day with her character and all her sidekicks - particularly as this is the final series - what an opportunity to fly in the face of convention! In the nicest possible way, of course,,,,,
I enjoy it very much too. I do hope, though, that at some stage somebody (hopefully "Mum") will firmly put her son and his girlfriend - and her brother's ghastly girlfriend - in their place. It is a funny and poignant programme but sometimes I get so annoyed on her behalf and wish she'd occasionally snap back.
Yes Namsnanny that (main) character is horrible, the way she pretends to humour people that think they get on with her then rolls her eyes at them behind all their backs. There is no one on her life that she just genuinely likes without pretence. So disingenuous. but that's what makes it compulsive viewing. Awful woman.
Urmstongran……..I think you should watch the earlier series, if you can, you'll really get to understand all of the characters, as well as revel in the blossoming relationship between Kathy and Dave.