BlueBelle I’m so sorry to hear that your grandchildren lost their daddy, it must have been a very difficult time for you all.
However, although the scenes that little ‘Sam’ took part in, including the scene where he spoke to his mother in the coffin, were wonderfully done, and yes, he’s a great actor, nonetheless let’s remember that this was done for entertainment. Whilst I agree that real children who lose a parent must be allowed to grieve, and that they may wish to see their parent’s body in order to say goodbye, this is not real, it’s entertainment. I cannot agree that using such a young child, however good an actor he is, in such scenes is desirable. Just for entertainment! No, it’s wrong in my opinion. An older teenager yes, a ten year old no! We cannot know how damaging this may, or may not, be to such a young child. It’s absolutely terrible when it happens in life, but to pretend, no!