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Kali2 Tue 01-Feb-22 20:23:48

New series about being a Junio doctor on an obs and gynea ward. Starting next Tuesday.

We laughed and laughed so much reading the book together- hope the series is as good.

But a word of warning, it is NOT for the faint-hearted and those who are terrified of hospitals and medics!

lemsip Fri 11-Feb-22 07:12:06

when watching this you must remember he is now a comedian! ...not that I thought the 10 minutes of it that i watched before turning it off was funny at all.

MayBee70 Fri 11-Feb-22 11:05:39

When I worked for the NHS I found the doctors that used black humour the most tended to be the ones that put the most effort and care into looking after their patients. Having said that it isn’t fair of me to generalise as I didn’t work with lots of people.

notgran Fri 11-Feb-22 12:03:22

I binge watched this on i-player. I squirmed and laughed a lot. Loved it. Both the story and the acting were terrific. I hope Ben Whishaw gets an award for his portrayal.

MayBee70 Fri 11-Feb-22 12:21:00

I’m going to binge watch it tonight. I don’t think many actors could have carried it off the way Ben has. He’s a terrific actor.

KimGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 11-Feb-22 12:35:24

Hi, OP. Hope you don't mind but we tweaked your thread title to match exactly with the name of the book/TV show.

MayBee70 Fri 11-Feb-22 14:10:31

DD says all of her medic friends are loving it.

Farzanah Fri 11-Feb-22 15:50:33

That’s interesting feedback from medics MayBee70. I must say I wasn’t that impressed by the first episode, and I thought it showed scary incompetence the like of which I didn’t see when I was working. However I appreciate it’s from a rather OTT black humour perspective, and does show the inhumanely long hours worked by young doctors where mistakes are likely to happen.

LadyGracie Sat 12-Feb-22 09:22:15

I binge watched over 2 nights, I found it very funny but also shocking and tragic. Brilliant acting all round.

Lucca Sat 12-Feb-22 09:29:27

I think it is excellent. A retired doctor friend has also praised it.
Great acting. Shruti is brilliant.

PamelaJ1 Sat 12-Feb-22 09:31:26

We were looking forward to watching this, We enjoyed the book.
We turned it off, perhaps you can only ‘enjoy’ this if you have lived through similar situations?
All too frenetic for us although I don’t doubt that it’s true to life.

Zoejory Sat 12-Feb-22 09:31:52

Black humour abounds amongst medics. It's how they keep going. Fabulous book and fabulous series.

Blinko Sat 12-Feb-22 09:33:09

We watched the first one. I didn't find it at all amusing. OH liked it though so we'll probably watch the next one. I'm reserving judgement. For one thing, I can't get on with Ben Wishaw. To my mind, he looks about 14 years old and that gets in the way of appreciating him in any acting role. hmm

Zoejory Sat 12-Feb-22 09:33:17

Lucca

I think it is excellent. A retired doctor friend has also praised it.
Great acting. Shruti is brilliant.

Shruti was indeed brilliant. Amazing acting.

MerylStreep Sat 12-Feb-22 22:26:49

It appears the author is trying to hide some of his distasteful past.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10506277/This-Going-Hurt-author-Adam-Kay-sang-vile-songs-Downs-syndrome-baby.html

Luckygirl3 Sat 12-Feb-22 23:29:12

Medics have strange senses of humour - I spent my life married to one. They need some outlet for their uniquely stressful life. It wore my poor OH down.

The scene in the first episode where Adam was on a trolley holding in a prolapsed cord really does happen - my OH ran alongside a trolley, up in the lift and along the corridor to theatre with his hand inside a patient holding in the cord. That is not something that normally features in someone's life.

It all wore him out and made any semblance of home life very difficult. I think this aspect was very well depicted in the TV series. We all got used to Dad being permanently wrecked and under stress. I got used to him stopping being able to talk about it and get more and more unhappy. No job should wreck people's lives like this.

The depiction of the vast additional stress caused by the system in which they work was also well shown: endless paperwork, equipment failures, window-dressing for visiting dignitaries, staff going off with stress and the remaining staff doing double shifts, endless meetings to get basic needs met, doing a more than full-time job whilst also having to study for exams etc. The PC classes were real - I went to several when I was working in hospitals. My OH used to come home furious, fed up with wasting him time on this "bollocks," as he used to say, when work was piling up.

There was of course a degree of exaggeration - but really not much. It truly is a very very stressful environment and the arrogance of consultants was very real - I have some hope that this is less so now.

I thought the acting was excellent.

It was however quite a weird presentation in many ways and I can understand that someone who had not worked in the setting might find it far-fetched.

MayBee70 Sun 13-Feb-22 00:03:25

I think I’ve got one or two episodes to go. Having a coffee and then putting iplayer back on. I remember when GP’s were on call all night but still had to do a full days work afterwards. I don’t think the patients realised that. I’d have to make extra strong coffee for them. Watching it has made me realise how much I loved working for the NHS ( apart from working for one doctor who not only made my life hell but was a terrible doctor). And I’ve just read an article in The Times about the nurse that’s just had a book published of the diary she kept about working on a covid ward so I’m feeling a bit emotional!

Lucca Sun 13-Feb-22 03:10:12

Luckygirl3

Medics have strange senses of humour - I spent my life married to one. They need some outlet for their uniquely stressful life. It wore my poor OH down.

The scene in the first episode where Adam was on a trolley holding in a prolapsed cord really does happen - my OH ran alongside a trolley, up in the lift and along the corridor to theatre with his hand inside a patient holding in the cord. That is not something that normally features in someone's life.

It all wore him out and made any semblance of home life very difficult. I think this aspect was very well depicted in the TV series. We all got used to Dad being permanently wrecked and under stress. I got used to him stopping being able to talk about it and get more and more unhappy. No job should wreck people's lives like this.

The depiction of the vast additional stress caused by the system in which they work was also well shown: endless paperwork, equipment failures, window-dressing for visiting dignitaries, staff going off with stress and the remaining staff doing double shifts, endless meetings to get basic needs met, doing a more than full-time job whilst also having to study for exams etc. The PC classes were real - I went to several when I was working in hospitals. My OH used to come home furious, fed up with wasting him time on this "bollocks," as he used to say, when work was piling up.

There was of course a degree of exaggeration - but really not much. It truly is a very very stressful environment and the arrogance of consultants was very real - I have some hope that this is less so now.

I thought the acting was excellent.

It was however quite a weird presentation in many ways and I can understand that someone who had not worked in the setting might find it far-fetched.

Great post. Really interesting insight thank you

Aveline Sun 13-Feb-22 10:08:34

When my Dad was a young hospital doctor he lived in the doctor's mess. They were very well looked after, even had a butler. So, yes, the hours were all consuming but they didn't have the stresses of food shopping, laundry, travel to work, flat rental, organising utilities, mobile phone contracts etc and all the complications of modern life. Like many doctors, he found romance with a nurse. They talked very fondly of their time in Obs and Gynae. Changed days I fear.

lemsip Sun 13-Feb-22 10:36:19

as MerylStreet has sent a link to this I will add the headline and link

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10506277/This-Going-Hurt-author-Adam-Kay-sang-vile-songs-Downs-syndrome-baby.html?login#readerCommentsCommand-message-field
This Is Going To Hurt author Adam Kay sang vile songs about a Down's syndrome baby and Northern women as part of comedy duo.........8While he worked for the NHS Adam Kay wrote parody songs with offensive lyrics
The author has desperately tried to remove any trace of them from the internet
In one performed song, a Down's syndrome baby is referred to as a 'mong'

Aveline Sun 13-Feb-22 11:13:38

shock unacceptable!

MayBee70 Sun 13-Feb-22 11:32:03

It would be unacceptable now but he was very young. How many of us said or did things when we were twenty that would horrify us now? I don’t intend to let what he did then overshadow what he went on to do to highlight the dangerously long hours and terrible conditions that young doctors have to work under.

GagaJo Sun 13-Feb-22 14:52:49

Just binge watched the series. LOVED it.

SachaMac Sun 13-Feb-22 15:16:19

I haven’t read the books but I have already watched several episodes, Its funny (gallows humour) but at the same time very sad with some very traumatic scenes. Definitely not for the squeamish and it would be worrying to watch if you were pregnant. I’m enjoying it.

Farzanah Sun 13-Feb-22 15:17:41

Lots of things that went on in the NHS would not be acceptable now and things have changed in step with society now.
For example it was common to see abbreviations written on patients notes describing them in a derogatory fashion.

Aveline Sun 13-Feb-22 15:37:34

FLK and NFF?